For days crying or shut himself in a room often
becomes a way for women to vent their grief after the breakup. Well, there's
nothing wrong with that, just do not forget that your life's journey does not
end here. Determine how long the period of 'mourning', then get up and start
again your escapades.
Here are some steps to start a new chapter as
quoted from eHow. It is not always easy to do, but do not ever give up.
1.
Always close friend. In those days
'critical' try not to spend much time alone. Although just sit around and chat,
presence of friends can help fill your heart. Benefit from technology if you or
a friend is busy. Chat, phone, or communicate via internet can also help to fill the free time
once you confide.
2.
Calm down, reading a book. Try to
remember back what books you read because it had not been busy. Interesting
book will spark your imagination and make your own fun. The more you spend time
with your favorite book, without knowing the less time spent thinking about the
former.
3.
Do not be easily tempted men. In
troubled times, it is often easy once you fall in love with him. At this time
is you often need a figure of a man to fill the void and give careful
attention. Do not get stuck in just a fling. Think carefully and always focus
on other things in your life such as work, family, or education. If you already
feel quite calm and thinking clearly, then you can slowly start looking for a
replacement the former.
4.
If it is difficult to forget, delete
him from your life. Erase everything related to him either from memory or
physical form. Remove phone number, email, facebook, twitter, and all that can
remind you back to him. Whatever the reason, DO NOT send any messages either
via email, sms, and internet to it when you are not calm. Of course this will
be difficult, but believe me, you can pass through.
5.
Sports. This suggestion might sound
corny, but there are definitely reasons why exercise can help you forget about
him. Sport is not only good for your health but also good for mental health.
Exercise can help improve your mood and make you more refreshed. With a healthy
body and fresh, it will automatically increase your confidence and make you
more positive in life.
6.
Confide in writing. Devote all your
heart's content in written form. Many experts believe that this method can help
make you more relaxed. Confide in writing can also prevent you caught up in his
own mind that could have negative consequences. As you write, without knowing
you could realize that he really is not the best. Make sure your writing is
personal and can not be read by many people. To strengthen the mood, pairs of
music that can help improve your mood.
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