tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-53735031003493817262024-02-19T13:35:36.496+07:00VenusBerbagi cerita cintaBerbagi Cerita Cintahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03350717613555963533noreply@blogger.comBlogger58125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5373503100349381726.post-74187099178612280592012-12-16T12:31:00.004+07:002012-12-16T12:31:41.817+07:005 TIPE PRIA YANG JAGO BERCINTA 5 TIPE PRIA YANG JAGO BERCINTA <div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span class="widget-item-control"></span><br /><b>5 tipe pria yang jago bercinta</b>
- Bagi anda para wanita, alangkah lebih baik jika anda mengetahui seluk
beluk pria idaman anda agar kelak tidak menyesal ketika anda berdua
telah menikah. Ternyata, pria itu ada yang mahir bercinta, dan ada juga
yang kurang mahir bercinta. Pada kesempatan kali ini, akan kami berikan
informasi mengenai beberapa<b> pria</b> yang<b> jago bercinta</b>. Anda penasaran? selengkapnya dapat anda simak informasi berikut ini </div>
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Pria yang memprioritaskan kebutuhan Anda lebih mahir bercinta, Gestur dan perilaku pria dalam kesehariannya atau cara pria memperlakukan pasangannya, dapat menunjukkan kemahirannya bercinta. </div>
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Berikut ini adalah <b><span style="color: blue;">5 TIPE PRIA YANG JAGO BERCINTA</span></b><br /><b>1. Gentleman.</b></div>
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Perhatikan perilaku, sikap, dari pria yang memiliki karakter ini. Banyak
perempuan mendambakan pria yang disebutnya sosok gentleman. Bukan
semata pria yang kerap membukakan pintu untuk Anda, namun juga pria yang
tak sungkan menunjukkan kepeduliannya terhadap pasangan. Pria tipe ini
punya perhatian besar terhadap pasangan, dan selalu memikirkan keadaan
Anda dan tahu cara tepat memperlakukan Anda. Termasuk memahami Anda saat
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<br /><b>2. Peka.</b><br />Si dia tak sungkan menggandeng tangan Anda saat
berjalan bersama, atau sekadar menyentuh lembut saat makan malam, juga
memberikan sentuhan mesra saat berduaan dengan Anda. Perilaku seperti
ini menunjukkan si dia tahu caranya juga waktu tepat untuk menunjukkan
perhatian melalui sentuhan. Kepekaan yang terlatih setiap harinya ini
membuatnya lebih mahir saat bercinta. <br /><br /><b>3. Tak egois. </b><br />Sebagian
pria fokus pada dirinya sendiri. Alih-alih memberikan perhatian pada
pasangan, ia justru sibuk membicarakan apa yang terjadi pada dirinya
sepanjang hari, atau kegiatan apa yang ingin dilakukannya. <br /><br />Pria
yang mengedepankan Anda daripada kepentingan dirinya, menandakan
perhatian besar yang ditujukan untuk pasangan bukan dirinya. Baginya
kebahagiaan Anda menjadi prioritas. Kebiasaan seperti ini juga terbawa
saat Anda bercinta dengannya. Si dia tak egois hanya memikirkan diri
sendiri, namun lebih ingin membahagiakan Anda termasuk di tempat tidur. <br /><br /><b>4. Sabar. </b><br />Pria
yang mau mengenal Anda lebih dekat, menjalani berbagai aktivitas
bersama dalam rangka saling memahami kepribadian menunjukkan
kesabarannya dalam membina hubungan. Sekaligus juga menunjukkan
ketertarikannya terhadap Anda dan keinginannya untuk membangun hubungan
jangka panjang. Pria tipe ini bersedia menunggu kesiapan Anda, termasuk
saat bercinta. Ia takkan memaksakan kehendaknya kepada Anda. <br /><br /><b>5. Membuat Anda lebih percaya diri. </b><br />Si
dia tak sungkan memberikan pujian atau mengungkapkan dukungannya
terhadap Anda. Caranya memandang dan memperlakukan Anda, membuat Anda
merasa cerdas, seksi dan atraktif. Perlakuan pria yang membuat
pasangannya merasa istimewa dan menambah kepercayaan diri Anda setiap
harinya, menjadi tanda bahwa si dia juga mampu membuat Anda merasa hebat
dalam seks. Dengan kata lain, pria tipe ini punya kemampuan lebih dalam
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Berbagi Cerita Cintahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03350717613555963533noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5373503100349381726.post-6086310435816924382012-12-16T12:29:00.004+07:002012-12-16T12:29:40.653+07:005 RAHASIA PRIA YANG TAK PERNAH DIUNGKAPKAN<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<b><u>5 Rahasia pria yang tak pernah diungkapkan </u></b>-
Jika anda adalah seorang wanita, sepertinya anda wajib membaca artikel
kali ini sampai selesai. Karena, pada kesempatan kali ini, kami akan
memberikan informasi mengenai beberapa<b> rahasia pria</b> yang tak pernah diungkapkan. Anda penasaran? selengkapnya, silahkan anda simak informasi berikut ini</div>
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Walaupun sudah dekat dengan pasangan, ada rahasia yang tetap disimpan pri<u>a<b>. </b></u>Saat hubungan dengan kekasih semakin dekat, sebagian wanita merasa
kalau pasangannya telah membeberkan segalanya. Namun, ada hal-hal
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<br />Mengetahui hal-hal yang dirahasiakan pasangan dapat membantu memahami mereka lebih baik dan meningkatkan hubungan Anda berdua. </div>
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Berikut <b><u><span style="color: blue;">5 RAHASIA PRIA YANG TAK PERNAH DIUNGKAPKAN</span></u></b>, seperti dikutip dari Times of India: <br /><br /><b>1. Ingin Anda bergaul dengan teman-temannya, tapi tidak mencintai mereka </b><br />Seorang
pria ingin kekasihnya bergaul dengan teman-temannya, tapi dia juga tak
setuju bila Anda bergaul dengan mereka sepanjang waktu. Terlebih lagi,
Anda malah "jatuh cinta" pada teman mainnya itu. <br /><br /><b>2. Tak suka kalau Anda sangat terobsesi dengan tubuh atletis </b><br /><br />Mengagumi
ketampanan dan tubuh Brad Pitt bukan sebuah masalah bagi sebagian pria,
namun pria juga tak suka bila pasangan terlalu terobsesi dengan tubuh
kelewat atletis. Jangan heran jika pria juga memuji Jessica Alba saat
merasa kesal. <br /><br /><b>3. Merasa khawatir bila Anda menemukan seseorang yang lebih baik </b><br />Bukan
hanya wanita yang khawatir kehilangan pasangan karena wanita lain yang
lebih seksi, pria pun merasakan ketidaknyamanan ini. Hanya saja mereka
bisa menyembunyikannya lebih baik daripada kebanyakan wanita. <br /><br /><b>4. Pria tak memeluk hanya sekadar ingin bercinta </b><br />Bila
menganggap hanya wanita yang ingin sekadar berpegangan tangan atau
bersandar di lengan pasangan, Anda keliru! Kendati tak seorang pria pun
akan mengakuinya, pria sebenarnya juga menikmati sesi kasih sayang
bersama pasangan. <br /><br />Bukan berarti dia tak memiliki pikiran nakal dalam kepalanya, tapi kadang ada saat-saat pengecualian. <br /><br /><b>5. Tak ingin pasangan tahu apa yang dilakukan saat bersama teman-temannya </b><br />Apakah
mereka bercakap-cakap dengan sesama teman mengenai wanita, hobi dan
kesenangan, jangan berharap seorang pria mengungkapkannya pada Anda.
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<b>4 efek pelukan yang tak terduga</b> - <b>Berpelukan</b>
sering dilakukan oleh hampir semua pasangan. Namun, tahukah anda bahwa
ternyata dibalik pelukan tersebut terdapat efek yang mungkin tidak akan
pernah anda duga sebelumnya. Pada kesempatan kali ini, akan kami berikan
kepada anda informasi lengkapnya. Seperti apakah efeknya?selengkapnya
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Memeluk seseorang yang Anda sayangi sebanyak empat kali per hari bisa menjauhkan depresi.<br />
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perlu ragu mengungkapkan sayang dan cinta yang Anda rasakan pada anak,
suami, istri, dan orangtua dengan sentuhan. Sebab memeluk, memegang
tangan, atau mengusap kepala, terbukti membuat hidup seseorang lebih
bahagia. Anda ingin tahu manfaat lain dari dekapan Anda pada si dia
maupun anggota keluarga lainnya?<br />
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Berikut ini adalah <b><u><span style="color: blue;">4 EFEK PELUKAN YANG TAK TERDUGA</span></u></b><br />
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Sentuhan dari orang yang kita sayangi akan meningkatkan jumlah
hemoglobin di dalam darah. Seperti yang kita tahu, hemoglobin merupakan
salah satu bagian dari tubuh yang membawa oksigen ke seluruh tubuh,
termasuk jantung dan otak. Suplai hemoglobin yang meningkat ini
dipercaya secara ilmiah akan mempercepat proses penyembuhan setelah
sakit.<br />
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2. Memeluk seseorang yang Anda sayangi sebanyak empat
kali per hari bisa menjauhkan depresi. Malah secara ilmiah, delapan
pelukan sehari akan memberikan kestabilan mental yang lebih kokoh, dan
12 pelukan sehari akan membantu perkembangan psikologis seseorang.
Penelitian lain menyebutkan manfaat pelukan, di antaranya mengurangi
stres, membantu pola tidur yang sehat, memberi semangat, dan
meningkatkan sistem kekebalan tubuh.<br />
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3. Sebuah penelitian yang
dilakukan University of California juga membuktikan betapa dahsyatnya
sentuhan dari suami, istri, bahkan pacar. Sebanyak 25 perempuan yang
menjadi objek penelitian diberi semacam panas yang membuat mereka merasa
kesakitan. Lalu mereka dipersilakan memegang bola kecil, tangan pria
asing, dan tentunya tangan pasangan. Ajaibnya, ketika mereka saling
berpegangan dengan tangan pasangan, rasa sakit yang dirasakan jauh
berkurang dibandingkan ketika mereka memegang bola kecil atau tangan
pria asing.<br />
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4. Penelitian yang dipublikasikan oleh Journal of
Epidemiology and Community Health mengungkapkan fakta bahwa bayi yang
sedari lahir selalu diberi sentuhan (pelukan, ciuman, belaian) pertanda
kasih sayang oleh orangtuanya tumbuh menjadi pribadi yang tak mudah
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Dalam banyak budaya di dunia, kematian adalah sesuatu yang sakral
sehingga diperlukan sebuah upacara khusus untuk menghormati atau
mengenang mereka yang mati. Penguburan mayat dan kremasi adalah sebuah
ritual kematian yang biasa ditemui. Namun, percayakah anda bahwa ada
beberapa budaya yang tidak lazim kita temui seperti membuang mayat,
berdansa dengan mayat, hingga yang paling mengerikan adalah ritual
memakan mayat? Berikut ini adalah 10 budaya yang tidak lazim dalam
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1. Pemakaman Langit atau sky burial <br /><br /><img height="199" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgHGCLIn-eD7YlY64zV2Z_jjC2Yp02tKuw-xk75D17LnNNrrAyiYH3fVWoU49KVdbe0hanskNlGzE3SrBU7uBkQzUaa7nmtoZMgZ33OScWB0KpOnY-YgeeD-We03qxW_LGB0vAc8o0Mvppb/s320/skyburial.jpg" width="320" /> <a href="http://www.blogger.com/blogger.g?blogID=6023059528704540532"><br /></a><span id="goog_1038906900"></span>Iklim
keras Tibet dan tanah berbatu-batu membuat pemakaman di sana terasa
mustahil. Jadi, warga Buddha di Tibet sering pergi untuk sebuah
“pemakaman langit” di mana tubuh akan dicincang, dicampur dengan tepung
dan diatur sedemikian rupa agar dimakan oleh burung-burung pemakan
bangkai. Mereka percaya bahwa tubuh hanyalah sebuah kapal untuk jiwa dan
harus kembali ke alam. <br /><span id="goog_1038906901"></span> <br />2. Peti mati Fantasi <br /><br /><img height="231" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiIyN1FuRJWn2XQenmfNf7kH8n1ZxCgFj9AOm20DlX7XxkPCzPgZ2ovKvqEHUj7tBf3L1jpfalFfELDvie9lBbEPSRes4WtSXPAIVZMFz-NCpaCIz2HrhFlvrOsBopr7x0UOiqrNHFREatg/s320/fantasycoffin.jpg" width="320" /> <br />Jika
saja Elvis Presley meninggal di Teshi (Ghana), maka dia akan dikuburkan
dalam sebuah peti mati berbentuk gitar. Warga pinggiran Accran ini
mempunyai kebiasaan menguburkan mereka yang mati dalam peti mati
fantasi. Peti mati ini mengambarkan profesi almarhum. Replika raksasa
botol coke, buah-buahan atau gadget lainnya akan ditampilkan di ruang
pamer peti mati. <br /> <br />3. Mumifikasi Diri Sendiri <br /><br /><img height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEglSLIqEGDtnucjGeaVSL9cpruiZEjdcEs8xOgHPnrvwfReP2M_yzZuCiL0OEm_Z26r7gsa-yWiz1DuVSkr1mFD95JK0ejve-gFS3e7-3a-f9O-42qJWVtlgbsBjAHnohpzlqzSlqUDcVL7/s320/selfmummification.jpg" width="212" /> <br />Hal
ini membuat ritual menjelang kematian terdengar seperti lelucon.
Beberapa biksu Budha yang disebut Sokushinbutsu di Jepang tidak hanya
melakukan bunuh diri, mereka juga melakukannya dengan cara yang
dipercaya menyebabkan mereka menjadi mumi. Proses ini dimulai dengan
diet kacang dan buah-buahan yang dikombinasikan dengan kegiatan fisik
yang keras. Penghapusan lemak tubuh tercapai dengan langkah pertama.
Langkah kedua melibatkan kehilangan cairan tubuh dan meracuni tubuh
mereka untuk mencegah serangan belatung. Ini dicapai dengan mengkonsumsi
kulit, akar dan teh beracun selama 1000 hari. <br /> <br />Pada tahap
terakhir, biarawan itu akan memasuki sebuah makam batu, duduk dalam
posisi lotus dan menunggu kematian. Dia akan membunyikan lonceng setiap
hari untuk membiarkan sesama biarawan tahu bahwa dia masih hidup. Dan
kemudian ketika lonceng tidak lagi berbunyi, para biarawan akan menyegel
makam, menunggu 1000 hari lagi sebelum membukanya untuk memverifikasi
mumifikasi itu. <br /> <br />4. Exposure – Tower of Mumbai <br /><br /><img height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhRxXKPkXFpLedlgBi5SmS9vc_CrMCgNv0Hb7dNlcmp4Yr52hfkG-fYSWAexWqjaRBXAk0b0EugqSUR3l8vOapwrTZ-M90JyTwdo15_g8qS9j-NRXyzJOCM9pB-H5-Ys3WPfXyVXXrzRY88/s320/towerofsilence.jpg" width="207" /> <br />Zoroastrianisme
percaya bahwa setelah kematian tubuh hanya membuat pencemaran saja.
Kremasi atau penguburan dikesampingkan karena mereka beranggapan akan
mencemari unsur-unsur sakral seperti api dan bumi. Jadi, mereka
melakukan sebuah ritual yang disebut eksposure orang mati. Tubuh
almarhum disimpan di menara yang disebut Tower of Silence dan dibiarkan
dimakan oleh burung nasar. <br /> <br />Praktek ini sekarang masih dilakukan
di anak benua India. Berkurangnya populasi Hering burung pemakan
bangkai di India telah menyebabkan proses ini menjadi mengerikan.
Beberapa Foto terakhir menunjukkan tumpukan mayat semakin membusuk di
atas Tower di Mumbai (India), dan membangkitkan kontroversi dalam
masyarakat. <br /> <br />5. Pemakaman Dengan Penari Telanjang <br /><br /><img height="239" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEggDvdi5anlvkcvCa3WQ4v8BuBO6vAvVNHh1eZ_zSZ-Sn4CaDfB94H9Uqoeobgx0u4SL7qrYYdTD7EILz9-5FWM38UeB27ZfSY53MPybiKM6i_5IkCvUdMKIyRdyOfX2OoibU4VJl00GdBH/s320/funeralstrippers.jpg" width="320" /> <br />Menghadiri
upacara kematian dapat menjadi membosankan, kecuali ada penari
telanjang profesional di pemakaman. Di wilayah Donghai China, pemakaman
sebenarnya simbol status. Reputasi orang mati dan kehormatan dianggap
berbanding lurus dengan jumlah orang yang menghadiri pemakamannya. Jadi,
keluarga menyewa penari telanjang untuk menarik orang banyak. Pihak
berwenang Cina telah mulai menindak praktek ini setelah gencarnya media
memberitakan. <br /> <br />6. Berdansa Dengan Orang Mati <br /><br /><img height="273" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjYN3808TdNz4K3UBgj2h2Mee_MK_OgJcmw5g1yWw1kcvTyzDHSKGeJRo9dC_BaIUU_RcqHQcwHWUyxmOT8VOGte74Dy-vwDWfKqqLGxrlkqJRoQRCXCicpo8QCtRyV7S5YPqXlZ8UkfqNX/s320/deadcandance.jpg" width="320" /> <br />Percaya
atau tidak, orang Malagasi di Madagaskar mengeluarkan orang mati dari
kubur dan melakukan perayaan bersama mereka. Ritual yang disebut
Famadihana ini meyakini semangat almarhum akan bergabung dengan nenek
moyang mereka setelah tubuhnya membusuk. Perayaan yang diiringi dengan
tarian-tarian bersama mayat ini diadakan sekali setiap 7 tahun sekali
dan merupakan waktu reuni keluarga bersukacita. <br /> <br />7. Kematian yang mempesona <br /><br /><img height="239" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhLQNXuRIwq1xacLi75qTLIGhe8kcAz-90XHHGsdr8FcPZLHxlSmI4aGimyY1M_Xeo6l8QxbMZQ3bS_9B1C4M-Ys1-YWtoZvKCz-MyxGfGC9majm33DmNbKIP8V1wpOdHRnpsrpPRHsJMLi/s320/lifegem.jpg" width="320" /> <br />Orang-orang
sekarang dapat “memakai” orang yang mereka cintai di jari-jari mereka.
Sebuah perusahaan Amerika yaitu LifeGem menawarkan kesempatan bagi
mereka yang mati dan dicintai menjadi sebuah berlian sintetik. Proses
ini dimulai dengan menangkap karbon dari tubuh pada saat dikremasi dari
almarhum. Karbon dari tubuh orang mati ini kemudian diubah menjadi
grafit. selanjutnya menjalani sebuah proses dengan suhu dan tekanan yang
sangat tinggi untuk mendapatkan kristal mengkilap seperti berlian.
Harganya berkisar dari $ 3500 sampai $ 20,000 tergantung pada ukuran
karat. <br /> <br />8. Puasa Untuk Kematian <br /><br /><img height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjadBiz1IwBgzSIbcDskPttUhYq2jS3fM6oaZKNQM06PQFXSO1F5YONbfAffcWP08NphHjL2JPprAgkeA_M3bP26wamRbbDK_cACi-vFSNR7JYSOrpsZIwRdDg8REMkj9C3qQJ4fDzry-_D/s320/santhara.jpg" width="239" /> <br />Vimla
Devi, seorang wanita India melawan kanker, meninggal pada 2006.
Penyebab kematian itu bukan kanker, tapi puasa selama 13 hari yang
disebut santhara. Ini kematian sukarela dengan puasa yang dipraktekkan
oleh Jain, sebuah komunitas yang percaya anti kekerasan terhadap semua
makhluk. Santhara biasanya dimulai setelah orang memutuskan bahwa tujuan
hidupnya sudah tercapai dan siap untuk pemurnian spiritual. Dikenal
ritual yang mirip, yang sering dianggap sebagai bentuk bunuh diri atau
euthanasia. Namun, dalam komunitas, santhara menabukan hal ini. <br /> <br />9. Pemakaman Tana Toraja <br /><br /><img height="239" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgwnBPLjmw_3edY3uboHr1TRY-GdObcTvXr5cHHhlntYjAIS3p-wOXxdX-23W_mSFkxM3jS4iMBApH-kK_6SP1-U_v7yIZUK1waIIMwn4A0sMdWo5z678jJigCUbCG8MRPbDE4XA5NLxei3/s320/tanatoraja.jpg" width="320" /> <br />Pemakaman
di wilayah Tana Toraja Indonesia adalah sebuah ritual agung. Upacara
pemakaman disertai dengan musik, tari-tarian dan pesta untuk sejumlah
tamu. Kematian di sini adalah sebuah kesempatan mewah dengan harga yang
mahal. Jadi, keluarga almarhum diberikan penangguhan, mereka tidak perlu
menguburkan tubuh mayat dengan segera. <br /> <br />Mereka hanya dapat
membungkusnya dan menyimpannya di dalam rumah mereka, sementara mereka
menabung untuk biaya pemakaman. Tabungan dapat waktu berminggu-minggu,
bulan atau bahkan bertahun-tahun. Sementara waktu itu, mayat
diperlakukan sebagai orang sakit dan dimasukkan dalam rutinitas
sehari-hari. Sebuah pemakaman yang sebenarnya terjadi ketika keluarga
melakukan upacara kematian, dan peti mati ditempatkan di kuburan berupa
gua atau tergantung di tebing. <br /> <br />10. Endocannibalisme <br /><br /><img height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhlnUGoDSxuGAZO4o43vrcdrGjPYfB9n32U9Jh3HPM-CWf15p-YrJjQ54ihyQYi95wtw-vclVmZc3_I-aiPGF5xrA5ihs3A16DGyC6KP619j8MIs9FYijBhdtPgx1WwLakVzibVE5xnk27w/s320/endocannibalism.jpg" width="235" /> <br />Mungkin
inilah ritual kematian terburuk yang pernah ada. Endocannibalisme
adalah praktik dimana orang memakan tubuh orang yang mati. Ide di balik
kebiasaan mengerikan ini adalah kepercayaan bahwa dengan memakan tubuh
si mati, maka sekaligus akan “menghisap” sifat-sifat almarhum untuk
asimilasi roh. Beberapa suku di Amerika Selatan dan Australia dikatakan
telah mempraktekkan ritual menyeramkan ini. <br /> <br />Tapi banyak
akademisi merasa endocannibalisme adalah tuduhan palsu yang dilemparkan
oleh kolonial pada masa awal untuk mendapatkan alasan dominasi politik.
Menurut antropolog Napoleon Changon, komunitas Yanomamo di Amerika
Selatan masih memakan abu dan sisa tulang orang yang mati setelah
dikremasi. <br /> </div>
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Berbagi Cerita Cintahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03350717613555963533noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5373503100349381726.post-5147648894811089692012-12-15T12:09:00.001+07:002012-12-15T12:09:38.544+07:0010 Lokasi Tempat Wisata Pulau Termewah dan Indah Di Dunia<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
<span style="font-weight: bold;">Santorini, Yunani</span><br />Tak hanya
pantai dan laut Yunani yang indah, lokasi ini dipercantik susunan
pemukiman yang didominasi warna putih dan biru. Banyak digunakan untuk
setting film karena keramahan penduduk dan suasananya yang relatif
tenang.<br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiH9UhVgLUYy12metljhYo_NHAmvs-3yGJrdrqycq7Zi26TUqAsQDAmzn7dYV4CixaRDEmudt7h3WHKL0SERJItyV_BJpNgTBiMw1gaDUDyYWItQyS0Nr-Crts3gfMiRvCETKvb2vd-xdb1/s1600/Santorini%252C+Yunani.jpg"><img alt="" border="0" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5666109301723537698" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiH9UhVgLUYy12metljhYo_NHAmvs-3yGJrdrqycq7Zi26TUqAsQDAmzn7dYV4CixaRDEmudt7h3WHKL0SERJItyV_BJpNgTBiMw1gaDUDyYWItQyS0Nr-Crts3gfMiRvCETKvb2vd-xdb1/s400/Santorini%252C+Yunani.jpg" style="cursor: hand; cursor: pointer; display: block; height: 400px; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; width: 329px;" /></a><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Bali</span><br />Kekayaan
wisata milik bangsa ini sudah tak diragukan lagi popularitasnya di
mancanegara. Tak hanya pantai, keindahan hamparan sawah juga menjadi
daya tarik istimewa dari pulau dewata ini.<br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjdnjn2KvOid3_XhEM074hYV7B6zL5_p-LfI-sWdKKSotSG_TofC6VPi-_gWf_i1dTGmFY9fjJOPj-AhsDwKfKm0esHpEc1aEzbOKxc_wFwFzrJqXvNPXZYXwlB_6LxojOga7I4XjspgPvf/s1600/bali.jpg"><img alt="" border="0" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5666109695909200514" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjdnjn2KvOid3_XhEM074hYV7B6zL5_p-LfI-sWdKKSotSG_TofC6VPi-_gWf_i1dTGmFY9fjJOPj-AhsDwKfKm0esHpEc1aEzbOKxc_wFwFzrJqXvNPXZYXwlB_6LxojOga7I4XjspgPvf/s400/bali.jpg" style="cursor: hand; cursor: pointer; display: block; height: 400px; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; width: 299px;" /></a><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Cape Breton, Kanada</span><br />Kepulauan
yang terletak di propinsi Nova Scotia, Kanada ini memiliki pantai yang
cenderung sejuk karena posisinya lebih didominasi oleh pegunungan.
Diperkaya dengan budaya musik Celtic Folk khas penduduk sekitar.<br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhkhXMLOTdstspPnVsr21Pb4FxoZVjCLPMKB8T7H8SvhB-el_J3f9rs_cVgCwp3uNa7FIjcIHesOdAXICZ6m3UiCkzIIvZ09V2GO-g46PoFQZO3Xrv4reBa2q0Y8BN0uHaBfzrwLvPyGh6n/s1600/Cape+Breton%252C+Kanada.jpg"><img alt="" border="0" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5666110000846435074" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhkhXMLOTdstspPnVsr21Pb4FxoZVjCLPMKB8T7H8SvhB-el_J3f9rs_cVgCwp3uNa7FIjcIHesOdAXICZ6m3UiCkzIIvZ09V2GO-g46PoFQZO3Xrv4reBa2q0Y8BN0uHaBfzrwLvPyGh6n/s400/Cape+Breton%252C+Kanada.jpg" style="cursor: hand; cursor: pointer; display: block; height: 400px; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; width: 303px;" /></a><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Boracay, Filipina</span><br />Pantai
Boracay telah menerima banyak penghargaan dari banyak majalah travel
akan keindahan panoramanya hingga industri perhotelannya yang berkonsep
alami. Terletak di bagian selatan Manila dan mulai ramai dikunjungi di
Asia setelah Bali.<br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEieGJRXSIJ5tzVfZd4F7oZq80Y1oDzv8m6SWemIHvUeFZUcMveyDSl_nqYK6kiccQHylxJw6urCm_OiGeIFMW9wBsliMoOJBkVKKBoxbjpOqVKzWLJ6s4p8kXF7H7fBBcKQO5v7RJYiASRw/s1600/Boracay%252C+Filipina.jpg"><img alt="" border="0" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5666110289180628242" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEieGJRXSIJ5tzVfZd4F7oZq80Y1oDzv8m6SWemIHvUeFZUcMveyDSl_nqYK6kiccQHylxJw6urCm_OiGeIFMW9wBsliMoOJBkVKKBoxbjpOqVKzWLJ6s4p8kXF7H7fBBcKQO5v7RJYiASRw/s400/Boracay%252C+Filipina.jpg" style="cursor: hand; cursor: pointer; display: block; height: 400px; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; width: 302px;" /></a><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Great Barrier Reef Islands, Australia</span><br />Salah
satu kekayaan alam Australia yang menyajikan pemandangan bawah laut
terbesar di dunia. Dengan lebih dari 3 ribu spesies yang hidup di
habitat koral, tempat ini juga menjadi destinasi menyelam dan
snorkeling.<br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgwEatdOLCmKkH_L9D-KEECYPryV0kLF5wybtDzvsi196-YpJyb064NlXLJinpt_bsJQcHvjq5jgOwv195lnuktcSBLyXFONlMQK_Iehmd9zL24MDDBT_ngXj_d6MEuYQuPfyKFs3eeVZmQ/s1600/Great+Barrier+Reef+Islands%252C+Australia.jpg"><img alt="" border="0" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5666110587067920210" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgwEatdOLCmKkH_L9D-KEECYPryV0kLF5wybtDzvsi196-YpJyb064NlXLJinpt_bsJQcHvjq5jgOwv195lnuktcSBLyXFONlMQK_Iehmd9zL24MDDBT_ngXj_d6MEuYQuPfyKFs3eeVZmQ/s400/Great+Barrier+Reef+Islands%252C+Australia.jpg" style="cursor: hand; cursor: pointer; display: block; height: 400px; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; width: 309px;" /></a><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Sicily, Italia</span><br />Kekayaan
budaya seni, literatur, makanan, arsitektur hingga bahasa terasa begitu
beragam di sini. Dengan pemandangan laut Mediterania dan berkembangnya
bisnis properti, dijamin akan memanjakan mata para turis yang datang
berkunjung.<br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiGOLbkp6fSyO20oH0EvPypbQMVrY3ajzvTL7Yd0BQ0W8ZGlWaK05yJFT6sJxwkwq_tvzAG0JE0pmMR73F4QK1nINnlsCVis8EJahhcs09DcaCz-bwfy4Ww35cYsBB1M_EtH6LjQAQ2z61n/s1600/Sicily%252C+Italia.jpg"><img alt="" border="0" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5666111104634920034" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiGOLbkp6fSyO20oH0EvPypbQMVrY3ajzvTL7Yd0BQ0W8ZGlWaK05yJFT6sJxwkwq_tvzAG0JE0pmMR73F4QK1nINnlsCVis8EJahhcs09DcaCz-bwfy4Ww35cYsBB1M_EtH6LjQAQ2z61n/s400/Sicily%252C+Italia.jpg" style="cursor: hand; cursor: pointer; display: block; height: 400px; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; width: 306px;" /></a><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Big Island, Hawaii</span><br />Pulau
ini merupakan pulau yang terbilang baru diekspos dari sekian banyak
gugusan kepulauan Hawaii. Dengan kekayaan objek wisata seperti gunung
laut tertinggi dan taman nasional terbesar, memberikan variasi
petualangan yang baru.<br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjFh_ZyZKHO42XB5Bo9v_Xn3-iN5hMdVdJ3CFZ2NxFKjv2HMkO-opaWEbJw5REn1f6kt_z7TFDzRW082kwmonnw0w54G2h7xjJu1oWwQUWjqC1s4dvFSLFVhHDUTmgw8wJjDFSVoLGvhyZR/s1600/Big+Island%252C+Hawaii.jpg"><img alt="" border="0" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5666111442815548258" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjFh_ZyZKHO42XB5Bo9v_Xn3-iN5hMdVdJ3CFZ2NxFKjv2HMkO-opaWEbJw5REn1f6kt_z7TFDzRW082kwmonnw0w54G2h7xjJu1oWwQUWjqC1s4dvFSLFVhHDUTmgw8wJjDFSVoLGvhyZR/s400/Big+Island%252C+Hawaii.jpg" style="cursor: hand; cursor: pointer; display: block; height: 360px; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; width: 350px;" /></a><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Kauai</span><br />Masih
di Hawaii, Kauai menyajikan pengalaman wisata yang berbeda dengan
ekplorasi historis, mulai dari kota kecil Hanapepe dan Koloa yang dihuni
penduduk lokal, hingga pantai ala surga di Poipu dan Hanalei Bay.<br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjlHR-HliNttBs8PXsc8569Z1klK4dzuvDjllUoQgtMeTi5_QIJ-SoHoA-mKylCP3HLrstBoxZ3BZeCKzPzhodE1lf_qsZser9ZrMEmVNuBowxSKCNQTNtcSBoItAy_RfIZ_MbN7y_mDHYW/s1600/Kauai.jpg"><img alt="" border="0" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5666111739677429266" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjlHR-HliNttBs8PXsc8569Z1klK4dzuvDjllUoQgtMeTi5_QIJ-SoHoA-mKylCP3HLrstBoxZ3BZeCKzPzhodE1lf_qsZser9ZrMEmVNuBowxSKCNQTNtcSBoItAy_RfIZ_MbN7y_mDHYW/s400/Kauai.jpg" style="cursor: hand; cursor: pointer; display: block; height: 400px; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; width: 303px;" /></a><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Maui</span><br />Kembali
ke Hawaii, pulai ini terpilih berulang kali sebagai 'Best Island' oleh
majalah Conde Nast Traveler selama belasan tahun. Dengan air laut hangat
hingga seni dan budaya Kahului, membuat turis tak akan melupakan
liburannya.<br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjkTUWcx1kGpWPTrmhLgHbJYGZKqXn0SgPlA7xAaBaCop5PU96r3j04ETpHmCaBMtgRO_srGmNyr2rlOtzZKNeh8yuHZFwxJ_wg8bzeysDHmbY9v8Rxac_jvpARcuU_9bhA3a_3QvUGvBj5/s1600/Maui.jpg"><img alt="" border="0" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5666112028602222578" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjkTUWcx1kGpWPTrmhLgHbJYGZKqXn0SgPlA7xAaBaCop5PU96r3j04ETpHmCaBMtgRO_srGmNyr2rlOtzZKNeh8yuHZFwxJ_wg8bzeysDHmbY9v8Rxac_jvpARcuU_9bhA3a_3QvUGvBj5/s400/Maui.jpg" style="cursor: hand; cursor: pointer; display: block; height: 400px; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; width: 299px;" /></a><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Galapagos</span><br />Dengan
populasi 23 ribu orang, pulau ini masih tergabung dalam Ekuador.
Keindahan taman nasional hingga pantai yang dulu menjadi persinggahan
para bajak laut juga menyimpan banyak misteri bagi para turis.<br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh9WY-U_NvT-f-Ym0BC9XaJYC1SgYSKxjLYvmVpfjq6c7ruqs0avX_PEoM7-bY8y-J8y2oYiOwYtfTiKIeDvaEQw8EaCSMF6Fct8kvKLUwqFD1L-aX2vA79cCh7fuOEXn9u8P7Ozn4fKKrG/s1600/Galapagos.jpg"><img alt="" border="0" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5666112310856501394" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh9WY-U_NvT-f-Ym0BC9XaJYC1SgYSKxjLYvmVpfjq6c7ruqs0avX_PEoM7-bY8y-J8y2oYiOwYtfTiKIeDvaEQw8EaCSMF6Fct8kvKLUwqFD1L-aX2vA79cCh7fuOEXn9u8P7Ozn4fKKrG/s400/Galapagos.jpg" style="cursor: hand; cursor: pointer; display: block; height: 400px; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; width: 312px;" /></a></div>
Berbagi Cerita Cintahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03350717613555963533noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5373503100349381726.post-90518879442681086132012-12-14T13:57:00.001+07:002012-12-14T14:02:36.861+07:00Men’s Ten Biggest Complaints About Women<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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No matter how many women write in to say, ‘I don’t do this!’ the fact is
many, many, many women practice the behavior that follows. Men have
complained about these problems in various male-oriented forums before,
but here, now, I drag their 10 biggest complaints into the daylight so
that everyone can finally see how women make complainers out of men.</div>
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You like to play coy.</h3>
If you like us, let us know. If you don’t, let us go. This
game where you pretend you don’t care and secretly hope we chase you
down is for teenagers. You think men like the chase? Perhaps. You think
we like guessing whether we’re wasting our time? No.</div>
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You fixate on what we’re thinking, when you should be watching what we’re doing.</h3>
You ask, “What are you thinking?” and we say, “Nothing.”
You figure this must be a lie, and decide that we aren’t willing to
communicate with you. The problem is, this is the wrong question to ask.
We’re action-oriented. You don’t need to ask what we’re thinking, just
watch what we’re doing. Coming home late every night? We’re not happy at
home. Uninterested in sex, probably crushed by stress. Not calling you
back even though we said, “I love you?” We don’t love you. You can save
the questions about musings until you see a change in our behavior.
That’s the surest sign that something needs to be discussed.<br />
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You don’t understand and/or like our need for alone time.</h3>
This often expresses itself with regard to hobbies. Say a
man likes to play golf and has played for years. Many a man has gotten
into a relationship only to have the woman complain about the time he
spends playing golf. She’s jealous of this time. Of course, if she loves
him she should know that he NEEDS this time on the golf course. It’s
his passion. It’s his release. Without it he will burn up with anxiety
and frustration over life’s little indignities. Why does she get
involved with a man who has a hobby she doesn’t like? See ”You see us as projects you can fix.”<br />
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You have a complicated set of double standards.</h3>
I could write a novel on this one. We only need look at the
example of going dutch on a first date. You offer to split the check,
and if we let you, you hold it against us. Really? You demand, quite
rightly, to be in on all important relationship decisions, yet when we
take you out and ask, “What would you like to do tonight?” you are angry
that we haven’t taken charge of the situation. It’s a confusing set of
double standards and antiquated rules that make it very difficult for us
to know which move is the right one.<br />
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You want us to change, and then lose respect for us when we do.</h3>
It’s an interesting phenomenon. When a man and a woman get
together it is likely that he will have some hobbies, tendencies, or
habits that she doesn’t like. For instance, I have a friend that met and
married a woman who wasn’t thrilled that he played in a band. She was a
bit threatened by the attention he received and his time spent pursuing
this. She told him, “I really wish you didn’t play in this band,” and
because he loved her, he quit. Within a few months this woman was
confiding to her friends, “I’m a little less attracted to him because he
quit the band, and just did what I asked. Now, he just hangs out at
home.” It’s a specific example, but a common problem. Clearly, the man
should do what he feels he has to do, but we try to be accommodating,
and to have that count against us is infuriating.<br />
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You see us as projects you can 'fix.'</h3>
You meet us. You like us. You date us. You marry us. And
somewhere along the way it might seem that you love us just as we are,
but rarely does it work out that way. Women see potential. They see
rough edges, and they want to sand them off. This makes us crazy. We
don’t want to change. We have chosen our car, hair, friends, home and
hobbies because we enjoy them. The knowledge that you are thinking, “If
he could only...” is a deeply disturbing thought, and perhaps more
sinister is the idea that this behavior is so common that even if you
aren’t the kind of woman who wants change, we expect that you do and are
only biding your time.<br />
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Your expectations are set by Hollywood and sky high.</h3>
Hollywood strikes again. I have a buddy that has plans to
attend a Nicholas Sparks book signing so he can tell the man to KNOCK IT
OFF! Most women know at an intellectual level that their man isn’t
going to be like George Clooney, or Brad Pitt or that Italian guy from
'Under the Tuscan Sun', but in their heart they want it. They’ve been
fed a fantasy about romance and passion for so long that when a REAL act
of love comes down the pike, he notices that the tread on your tires is
low and buys a new set, it hardly even registers. </div>
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You're always looking down the road.</h3>
Women tend to think about the next major step in life. Men
tend to think about the next major meal. Certainly part of this is
driven by biology. A 34-year-old single woman who wants to have children
has to think about the future. She has to think about finding a quality
partner, where they are going to live, is there enough room for the
baby in the study? A 34-year-old single man has far less interest in
planning or pushing towards some future major life goal. This difference
in priorities often leaves women in the unpleasant position of saying,
“next,” “next,” “next” when it comes to relationship events. There is a
female drive to get answers to questions like, “What ARE we?”, “Are we
exclusive yet?”, “Are we going to get married?” that makes it seem like
they aren’t enjoying the now and only worry about the future.</div>
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You use your emotions as a weapon.</h3>
You don’t mean to. I suppose it isn’t your fault that
during an important conversation about the future of our relationship
you start crying, but surely you understand that this derails the
ability to pursue the issue at hand. You’ve, essentially, played a kind
of trump card. If we continue to advocate our side, we’re bullies. If we
give in, we’re weak.<br />
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You have a tendency to be critical.</h3>
I’ve tried to avoid the word n-a-g, but there seems to be
some internal mechanism that makes women predisposed to criticism, in
the same way that men are predisposed to seek their man cave. It’s
almost a cliché -- the wife that complains and makes demands, and the
husband that just wants to be left alone to watch TV or work out in the
garage. </div>
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Berbagi Cerita Cintahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03350717613555963533noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5373503100349381726.post-92174595979905741192012-12-14T13:46:00.002+07:002012-12-14T13:46:24.894+07:00Getting Happy: The Nine Things You Need to Know<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Create Your own set of 'Flow' Experiences</h3>
According to Mihily Csikszentmihalyi, being in a state of
"flow", the completely focused motivation and attention required for a
given activity, is an indicator as important as reporting feelings of
happiness. This, he says, is what “makes for excellence in life.” Flow
activities are those where you are challenged to a level that requires
your full attention, where you enjoy the process and where you likely
lose track of time. Skiing, cooking, gardening, hiking and singing are
just a few examples of flow activities. <br />
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Wake Up!</h3>
The surest path to finding your own sense of personal
happiness and balance is built upon an awareness of future possibilities
and the extreme truth of the present moment. Many ancient traditions
know that the cultivation of mindfulness is an essential element of
happiness. How can you be mindful and present when life demands have
you running from one thing to the next? For one, take delight in the
senses. Wake up in the morning with full, cleansing breaths and welcome
the day with gratitude. Sit and eat. Really taste your food. Take a
breath and focus for just three seconds before answering your phone.
Try those three things and see what a difference it makes.<br />
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Learn to Forgive</h3>
It has been said that hatred is like a poison pill which
you ingest...and only cause damage to yourself. Think of forgiveness as
something you do for yourself. Research shows that forgiving-types of
people are less likely to be depressed, anxious or hold hostile feelings
and are more likely to be agreeable, serene, healthier -- the kind of
person who has strong connections with others.<br />
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Staying Happy while Coping with Problems</h3>
There are two ways to remain positive while dealing with
life’s curve balls. Engage in problem-focused coping, which involves
action strategies and engaging in small steps to actually solve the
issue at hand. Feel like you are doing something, even one small thing
towards resolving or ameliorating the situation. The other way to cope
is focused on emotions. This involves things like accepting rather than
denying the situation and keeping yourself balanced through activities
which help you including meditation, music and social support.<br />
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Practice Acts of Kindness</h3>
Being kind to others is not only good for the recipient -- but for you as well. According to Sonja Lyubomirsky, author of <i>The How of Happiness</i>,
kindness is like a natural tonic relieving guilt, distress and stress.
And it’s contagious. When you are kind to others it may likely
jumpstart a domino effect of positive social consequences as people
literally pay that kindness forward to someone else.<br />
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<h3>
It's All About Relationships</h3>
It has been said that our number one health epidemic is
social isolation. More women are living alone now than ever before.
Having meaningful social connections is essential. You can actually
boost happiness in your life by investing in nurturing, emotionally
healthy social relationships. Value your friendships and spend time with
the quality people in your life.<br />
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<h3>
Happiness Misconceptions</h3>
Many of us have been programmed to believe that material
things will make us lastingly happy (money, going shopping, etc). The
reality is that the ability to purchase things and have the status
associated with money falls into the 10% category of life’s
circumstances. And 10% isn’t all that much. True, lasting happiness is
an “inside-out” experience.
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The Happiness Factor</h3>
Happiness is not a vague notion but can be understood as
being 50% genetic; 10% based on circumstances like a new car, whether we
are rich or poor, generally healthy or unhealthy; a full 40% of our
sense of happiness is dependent upon our lifestyle and choices. The good
news? Only 50% of our happiness is actually genetically predetermined.
The other half of the equation is entirely up to us – meaning we can
create happiness in our choices and life activities.<br />
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Know Where You are Headed</h3>
People who strive for something significant to them, who
actively set goals and have aspirations, report being happier. They
create a roadmap for themselves and therefore avoid feeling lost. What
we’ve found is that the process of working towards a goal is as
important as that goals' attainment. Create some short term goals to
get started, allowing them to add structure and an anchor to your daily
experience -- and see how you feel.
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About the Author: <a href="http://www.theodysseygroup.net/">Barbara Waxman</a>
is a life and executive coach and author. The purpose of her work is to
help adults at midlife and better to harness their personal and
professional goals. Barbara is a regular guest on Leeza Gibbon’s
Hollywood Confidential radio program, and has been featured on CNBC.com,
Newsday, SmartMoney.com (WSJ) and U.S. News & World Report. She is a
gerontologist and certified coach through the Hudson Institute of Santa
Barbara. She is a member of both the International Coach Federation and
GILD (Global Institute for Leadership Development) Coaching Faculty.
She is the special editor of How to Love Your Retirement, the most
comprehensive collection of real advice from retirees transitioning to,
and thriving in, retirement.
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Berbagi Cerita Cintahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03350717613555963533noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5373503100349381726.post-65950544647114755012012-12-14T13:41:00.002+07:002012-12-14T13:41:28.369+07:009 Simple Things About Men That Women Tend To Find Sexy<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Every woman has at least one favorite mannerism about a guy that
automatically moves him on your “he could get it” list. Whether it be a
certain feature in his physical or a certain mannerism he does one thing
is for sure, and that is that “that thing” alone is liable to leave
your mind running rampant just thinking about what’s going on in his
head. I’m sorry to let you know but ladies we all have a favorite
“thing” a guy (especially if he’s nice on the eyes) does that instantly
makes us melt inside. Check out 9 simple things men do that some women
find sexy below:<br />
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9. <strong>The “LL” factor.</strong> You know what I’m talking about
ladies, that certain way he licks his lips that makes you look to the
right and arch your left eyebrow ’cause you’re left speechless. I really
need for you to feel me on this one ladies, I cannot be the only one
that silently goes crazy inside for the “LL” factor. I just can’t.<br />
8. <strong>Dark eyes and long lashes.</strong> This one may sound a
little metro-sexual but in my opinion there is just something about a
guy with a beautiful set of thick, long, full lashes and deep dark brown
eyes that seem to tell their own story. Nice eyes and nice lashes can
make up for guys that have that “rough around the edges” look to them,
it tends to soften them up a bit.<br />
7. <strong>The eyebrow raise. </strong>The eyebrow raise is
inevitable, you can’t look past it and you can’t escape it. It lingers
in your mind leaving you wondering what the hell that meant, was he
suggesting something? What was he thinking about when he did it? And
Damn, was that sexy! Ladies, try as you might but you will surely fail
against the battle of the eyebrow arch, this always leaves an imprint in
your mind, always has and always will.<br />
6. <strong>The way he wears his clothes.</strong> Now fellas, take
notes because this one directly applies to YOU. It is NOT and NEVER was
attractive to sag. I repeat fellas, it is not and never was attractive
to sag. Now it’s a certain point where a man’s pants should fall where
it’s actually sexy. Then it’s a certain point where a man’s pants should
not fall, and that borders somewhere along the lines of a Soulja Boy
extra tall Tee, trash bag baggy jeans sag past his knees type sag. That
fellas, is not even <em>almost</em> cute. Pull it up and find that balance to where it’s just right. Hint: Personally, I like to be able to <em>just</em> see the label of the boxers and no further then that, but that’s just me.</div>
Berbagi Cerita Cintahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03350717613555963533noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5373503100349381726.post-21078345520917200662012-12-14T13:32:00.002+07:002012-12-14T13:32:34.991+07:00Cara memutihkan kulit wajah<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
<b>1. Memutihkan wajah dengan Bengkoang</b><br />
Sobat dapat menfaatkan masker dan lulur bengkoang untuk memutihkan dan
menghaluskan kulit. Karena bengkoang mengandung fosfor dan kalsium
alami, yang dapat menjadikan kulit lebih putih, sehat, dan bersih.<br />
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<b>2. Memutihkan wajah dengan Jeruk Nipis</b><br />
Selain dapat dijadikan sebagai minuman atau penyedap makanan, jeruk
nipis juga dapat dimanfaatkan untuk membantu memutihkan kulit dengan
cara mengusapkan potongan jeruk nipis pada bagian tubuh yang ingin
kulitnya tampak putih, seperti pada wajah.<br />
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<b>3. Memutihkan wajah dengan buah pisang dan madu</b><br />
Ambil satu buat pisang ambon, kupas kemudia lumatkan hinga halus.
Tambahkan satu sendok teh : madu lalu aduk rata. Oleskan pada seluruh
bagian wajah termasuk leher dan diamkan selama 15 menit dan setelah itu
cuci bersih dengan air dingin. Hal ini sama saja dengan istilah membuat
masker wajah dengan buah pisang dan madu. Lakukan hal ini rutin sekali
dalam sehari dan niscaya kulita wajah akan terlihat lebih putih dan
halus.<br />
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<b>4. Memutihkan wajah dengan buah Alpukat</b><br />
Buah Alpukat banyak mengandung vitamin, mineral dan minyak alami yang
dapat membantu sobat untuk mempercatik dan menyehatkan kulit. Sobat
dapat memanfaatkan bagian dalam kulit alpukat yang mampu menahan
kelembaban kulit. Gosokkan dengan lembut pada bagian wajah yang ingin
tampak lebih putih, dan bilas dengan air setelah 15 menit.</div>
Berbagi Cerita Cintahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03350717613555963533noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5373503100349381726.post-50387302653298918872012-12-14T13:31:00.005+07:002012-12-14T13:31:43.825+07:00Cara memutihkan kulit tubuh<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Nah, apabila anda adalah orang yang menganggap kulit putih itu lebih
baik dan berniat membuat kulit anda menjadi lebih cerah, anda tidak
perlu khawatir karena sudah banyak metode yang bisa dilakukan untuk
mendapatkan kulit putih.<br />
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Tips dibawah ini adalah beberapa cara memutihkan kulit
secara alami yang bisa membuahkan hasil apabila dilakukan secara
konsisten.</div>
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<b>1. Pastikan untuk mencuci kulit</b> secara menyeluruh minimal dua
kali sehari dengan menggunakan sabun serta kain lap. Bilas kulit
menggunakan sabun dan mengelapnya dengan kain lap sehingga kulit bersih
dari sabun. Pada dasarnya, kain lap lembut membantu pengelupasan sel-sel
kulit mati. Anda juga dapat menggunakan air jeruk nipis dan masker tomat di kulit setiap pagi sebelum mencuci muka. Untuk membuat air jeruk nipis dan masker tomat, campurkan sepotong tomat dengan segelas jus jeruk nipis dalam blender. Setelah itu, oleskan lapisan masker ini dengan tipis pada kulit dan biarkan selama 10-15 menit. Jika maskernya masih tersisa, Kamu bisa menyimpannya dalam wadah yang
tertutup rapat selama seminggu untuk bisa digunakan kembali.</div>
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<b>2. Bersihkan masker dengan menggunakan air dingin dan sabun serta lap kain</b>.
Sadarilah bahwa jus jeruk nipis, menjadi asam alami, memiliki
kecenderungan untuk menyengat kulit Kamu dan itu merupakan gejala
normal. Bila digunakan secara teratur, kulit akan terbiasa dan sensasi
tersebut akan berkurang.</div>
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<b>3. Sebelum tidur, jangan lupa menerapkan jus lemon dan masker madu</b>.
Campuran satu sendok teh madu dengan satu sendok teh jus lemon. Lalu,
oleskan ke kulit Kamu dan biarkan selama setidaknya 10 sampai 15 menit.
Setelah itu, bilas menggunakan air hangat. Madu berfungsi untuk
melembabkan kulit sedangkan lemon berguna buat memutihkan kulit.<br />
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<b>4. Gunakan gel lidah buaya organik</b> 2 kali dalam sehari (pagi dan
malam) setelah mencuci kulit. Lidah buaya dapat berfungsi sebagai
pelembab, menyembuhkan iritasi, dan mencerahkan kulit.<br />
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<b>5. Eksfoliasi kulit</b> menggunakan gula pasir dan minyak zaitun.
Campurkan 1 sdm minyak zaitun dan 1sdm gula pasir, buatlah seperti
pasta. Gunakan jari untuk menggosokkan ke kulit dengan gerakan
memutar.Hati-hati kulit di sekitar mata, jangan sampai pasta terkena
mata. Cara ini akan menghilangkan sel-sel kulit mati di lapisan
permukaan, memerlihatkan dan mendorong pertumbuhan kulit baru, serta
membuat kulit terlihat segar.<br />
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<b>6. Lemon jus dan putih telur</b> dapat digunakan untuk membuat krim pemutih kulit secara alami di rumah.<br />
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Caranya sebagai berikut:Ambil putih telur dan jus lemon dengan takaran
yang sama. Campur kedua bahan tersebut dan panaskan di wajan kecil.
Tunggu sampai campuran berubah menjadi semi-padat. Kemudian keluarkan
krim tersebut dari wajan dan simpan di dalam toples. Masukan ke kulkas
sampai dingin. Oleskan krim tersebut pada kulit di tubuh/badan Anda dan
tunggu sampai 15 menit sebelum dibilas.<br />
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Hal ini sangat efektif untuk menghilangkan flek hitam dari sinar
matahari. Gunakan krim ini setiap hari sampai Anda mendapatkan warna
kulit putih bersih yang diinginkan.</div>
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Berbagi Cerita Cintahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03350717613555963533noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5373503100349381726.post-3434904979319837472012-12-14T12:25:00.002+07:002012-12-14T12:25:36.922+07:00I Love the Morning<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Today’s
message is going to be more of a confession than anything else. Not
the kind of confession that requires a priest or an attorney, mind you,
but one that simply allows another glimpse into the personal world of
yours truly. Here is my confession: I don’t know about you, but I love
the morning. I tend to go to bed early because I’m typically up
between 5 and 5:15 every morning. And it doesn’t matter what time I go
to bed. I could turn in at 4:55 a.m. and I’d still wake up around 5!
My internal clock has no off switch, so there is never any need for an
alarm. I get more done by 10 a.m. than most people do all day because I
am very productive in the early hours. There is just something about
being up before dawn that gets my juices flowing and my mind pumping. I
do most of my writing in the early morning hours because I tend to be
more creative then. As a matter of fact, it’s 5:52 a.m. at the very
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So I just thought I’d ask you to give some thought to how your
natural rhythm works. It’s important because if you’re not a morning
person, a job that demands you be at your best in the morning is a tough
row to hoe. Some people theorize this is why elementary and high
school students struggle so much with learning. They tend to be night
creatures by nature, and school is primarily a morning experience when
we are young. Technically your natural bio rhythm is called your
circadian rhythm. It roughly describes the 24-hour physiological cycle
in all living beings. So, my request for you today is to simply give
some thought to this phenomenon of nature. Are you working with or
against your nature? That’s an important question if you want to
maximize your potential and operate at full capacity. For me, I love
the morning!</div>
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Berbagi Cerita Cintahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03350717613555963533noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5373503100349381726.post-56971943126777997862012-12-14T12:10:00.001+07:002012-12-14T12:10:31.129+07:00How To Communicate With People: Seven Keys To Effective Communication<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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confidence, it shows. Confidence attracts others like a magnet because
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Many people make the mistake of talking too much about
themselves. Nothing kills a conversation quicker than rambling on about
oneself. One of the best methods to learn how to communicate with people
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This helps the other person feel more at ease and boosts
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where the other person feels obligated to reciprocate. The indulgence of
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<b>The Art of the Open-Ended Question</b></div>
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One of the quickest routes to awkward silence is asking
questions that can be simply answered with yes or no. By asking a
question that requires a more detailed answer, the other person has to
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Part
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make the other person think. One thing leads to another and in a short
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Comment on something the person is wearing. Does he have a detectable
accent? If so, ask where he's from or take a guess, if the accent is
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<span class="size10 newlook newpaginationlook" id="content_0_lblPageContant3">Be careful though; don't rattle off a
string of questions. This is a sure way to make someone feel
uncomfortable. A conversation should not be an interrogation.</span></div>
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asking someone's name, repeat it immediately. Saying a name aloud helps
to cement it in the memory. Use the person's name often over the course
of the conversation and remember to smile. </span></div>
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<strong>Listen Twice, Speak Once </strong></div>
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Pablo
Golub, author of "It's All a Damn Game" says, "You have two ears and
one mouth for a reason. Therefore, you should listen twice as much as
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In relation to people skills, this means that while
the other person is talking, give him or her your undivided attention.
Don't get caught in the trap of thinking of what you're going to say
next, what will happen later that day or any of the other tangents where
the mind can wander. </div>
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Stay focused, absorb the information given, and find a way to follow up with a question relevant to the subject.</div>
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an active interest in what this person is interested in, and if it's a
subject you know nothing about, you can use it to your advantage. Find
out more about the subject. </span></div>
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Would he mind telling you more about it? People love to share what they
know and nothing increases confidence more than sharing a subject close
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<span class="size10 newlook newpaginationlook" id="content_0_lblPageContant4"><strong>Knowledge Is Power</strong> <div>
Effective
communication begins and ends with knowledge. A well-rounded individual
is a fascinating one. People who travel, read or are aware of current
events are a joy to talk to. The more life experience a person has, the
better he or she can relate to others. </div>
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People who travel have
the ability to understand other cultures and people who read a lot often
have a head full of topics to discuss and can adapt to any
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A person who participates in multiple activities
is sure to find common ground with someone else. Establish a bond and
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<strong>Take a Risk</strong> <div>
Another interesting point that Golub
makes has to do with self-worth. He says that self-worth is synonymous
with confidence and regardless of rejection, a person's self worth does
not change. All too often, people are afraid to take a chance because
they fear rejection. Rejection makes a person feel inferior. </div>
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In
reality, rejection does not change one's self-worth. You are still the
same person, as valuable and important as you were before you entered
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No one can take your self-worth away from you;
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Take
a chance and keep trying for what you want. It's only a matter of time
before you get it. The only way to learn how to communicate with people
and to hone your skills is by practicing. Hanging back in the shadows
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Learning
how to communicate with people takes time to develop and everyone will
advance at their own pace. Start small; become comfortable with each of
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its foundation, effective communication starts with confidence and this
is the thread that binds everything else together. Each encounter helps
to increase your confidence and diversify your experiences. A good
place to practice these new people skills is the office or in the store.
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<span class="size10 newlook newpaginationlook" id="content_0_lblPageContant6">After it has become easier to speak with peers, try talking to
people in higher positions of power, such as managers. In no time, the
skills you taught yourself regarding how to communicate with people will
become second nature and won't require any thought at all. Talking to
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Nobody
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Berbagi Cerita Cintahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03350717613555963533noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5373503100349381726.post-66825613431055047302012-12-14T08:44:00.002+07:002012-12-14T08:44:17.639+07:00Level Up Your Communication in Relationships With These 7 Tips<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<a href="http://assets.lifehack.org/wp-content/files/2012/06/communication_in_relationships-380x278.jpg?ecd364" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img alt="" border="0" class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-26698" height="146" src="http://assets.lifehack.org/wp-content/files/2012/06/communication_in_relationships-380x278.jpg?ecd364" title="Communication in Relationships" width="200" /></a>Communication
can be a really tough thing, especially if it is with someone that you
have been in a relationship with for a long time. People tend to get
comfortable with each other and when that happens the levels of
communication may start to decrease because you “know each other so
well”.<br />
I’ve been with my wife for 7 years (married for a little over 2
years) and we have had issues that every couple has had; assuming that
each other knows something, miscommunication, lack of communication, and
not taking time for communication. We fell into a comfortable routine
in our life, and when that happened, our communication started to
suffer.<br />
<strong>SEE ALSO</strong>: 10 Things To Stop Doing in Your Relationships<br />
So, don’t let comfortableness fool you; there is still communication
issues that will come up if you don’t keep yourself open and honest and
make an effort to communicate with your partner. Follow these simple
tips to make sure that your communication in relationships is top notch.<br />
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1. Assuming</h2>
You have heard the old saying, “Assuming makes an ‘ass’ out of ‘u’
and ‘me’”. Yes, it’s cheeky and kind of stupid, but it’s very true. It’s
important in your relationship to not assume something unless it has
been clearly laid out in some form of communication.<br />
For instance, it’s assumed that I will take out the garbage every
Tuesday night (oops, need to get on that), but only because my wife and I
have a verbal contract that says so. If I don’t take out the garbage,
then it is my fault. If there were no contract, the blame couldn’t
really be passed to anyone. Sounds technical, but it happens all the
time.<br />
So, don’t assume, unless it has been laid out in a concrete way with your partner.<br />
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2. Say what you mean</h2>
If you have something to say in your relationship, then say it
clearly and concisely. It’s important to tell the other person exactly
what you mean, because if you don’t, they will create in their heads
what they <em>think</em> you mean. And that is never a good situation to be in.<br />
Just take some time to say what you mean, don’t rush your thoughts, and clarify your point if necessary.<br />
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3. Don’t shut up</h2>
If you have something to say, then say it. Don’t keep things bottled
up inside, especially when something in the relationship is bothering
you. Also, if you have something good to say about your partner, say it
loud and often. People may not necessarily like to hear the truth all
the time, but it’s an important communication skill to let the other
person in the relationship know where you are at.<br />
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4. Think about her before yourself</h2>
“It’s all about me”. Yeah, that doesn’t work so well in a relationship.<br />
While you shouldn’t let one side of the relationship have all the
attention, it’s important to to let your other half have some attention
before you get some. This shows that you actually care what they are
doing in their lives and that you are interested in them.<br />
Plus practicing a little selflessness every day can only make you a more sincere and empathetic person.<br />
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5. Don’t discourage conversation about feelings</h2>
Guys may be apprehensive about sharing what they feel at any given time (OK, <em>anyone</em>
may be apprehensive), but if you really want to kick your communication
into high gear share what your feelings are about the situtations that
are going on in your life.<br />
When I have shared what I truly felt with my wife, she was amazed and
felt much more connected to me (and I with her). Talking about feelings
sounds cliche, but don’t disregard it; it is important and it works.<br />
<h2 id="makecommunicationtime">
6. Make communication time</h2>
At least once a day set aside some time to open the lines of
communication with your partner. Basically shut down all the gizmos and
just have a conversation. It may feel weird and somewhat uncomfortable
at first, but the quality of the conversation will get better and better
as time goes on.<br />
Also, you will end up learning a bunch of things you never knew about
your partner (yes, even after many years of being with them).<br />
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7. Make non-communication time</h2>
On the opposite side of this, make sure that you have scheduled time
for not communicating. In other words, schedule a little “me time” every
single day. This is great for introspection and reflection on your life
and current situation. You can process feelings, worries, thoughts,
etc. by yourself and then bring them to your partner during your own
communication times.<br />
Sometimes we need a little quiet to understand what is going on with us on the inside.<br />
Communication is <strong>the</strong> most important thing in my
marriage and many others. Don’t take it for granted and make sure to
spend some serious time working on communication by following the tips
above. Your relationships will only benefit from them.</div>
Berbagi Cerita Cintahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03350717613555963533noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5373503100349381726.post-21096704677879084372012-12-14T08:42:00.000+07:002012-12-14T08:57:23.475+07:00How to Communicate Better in a Relationship<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Do you find yourself getting angry when your partner fails to "just
know" what you need? Communication requires efforts. This article
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<span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">1.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><b>Practice
intercourse</b>. In today's vernacular, that usually means physical bedroom
activity, but the root of the word really means <i>to interact</i> on a deeper
level. Being intimate has a more significant meaning than being physical. It's
about seeing into another person and trying to create a space in your mind for
your partner's words, body language, or actions.</div>
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<br /></div>
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; text-align: justify; text-indent: -18.0pt;">
<span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">2.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><b>Learn
to pay attention to the other person's clues</b>. Your partner might not
directly address his or her feelings on a certain topic, but there may be
plenty of non-verbal clues. Sometimes body language can convey more than actual
words. If you are caught in a misunderstanding, it's important to establish
your willingness to communicate.</div>
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<br /></div>
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; text-align: justify; text-indent: -18.0pt;">
<span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">3.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><b>Learn
to say what you mean</b>. We've heard the jokes about intent versus actual
dialogue -- when she says "this" she really means that -- or,
"what he's really trying to tell you is..." Those jokes are funny
because of how often they're true. Sometimes we expect our partner to
understand our hidden meanings, but wishing or relying on this isn't fair or
effective. Instead, lay out your thoughts directly. </div>
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<br /></div>
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; text-align: justify; text-indent: -18.0pt;">
<span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">4.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><b>Learn
to say what you want in a way your partner can really understand</b>. Be specific. For example,
instead of offering alternatives to your boyfriend's plans to bring you to a
party, tell him the truth: that you just don't want to face all those people
after a tough week at work, followed by, "I'm sorry to say that I'm just
not in a party mood tonight." Directly laying out your thoughts eliminates
resentment and confusion about your motives. </div>
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<br /></div>
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yourself in your partner's place</b>. Use the power of imagination to fully
envision what your partner's perspective might be in a given situation. Be
aware that there might be factors you don't know about</div>
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<br /></div>
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; text-align: justify; text-indent: -18.0pt;">
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your partner to freely express the roots of his or her thoughts and feelings</b>.</div>
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</span></span></span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">"I'm
trying to understand, but I'm not getting there. Am I doing something to upset
you?" "No." "Is someone else doing something to upset
you?" "No." "Are you just upset?" "Yes."
"With me?" "No. Not really." You're narrowing it down. It
seems like a lot of effort, but it may be worth it in the end.</span></div>
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<a href="http://www.blogger.com/blogger.g?blogID=5373503100349381726" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"></a><a href="file:///C:/DOCUME~1/Li@/LOCALS~1/Temp/msohtmlclip1/01/clip_image005.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"></a><a href="http://www.blogger.com/blogger.g?blogID=5373503100349381726" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"></a><a href="http://www.blogger.com/blogger.g?blogID=5373503100349381726" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"></a><a href="http://www.blogger.com/blogger.g?blogID=5373503100349381726" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"></a><a href="http://www.blogger.com/blogger.g?blogID=5373503100349381726" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"></a><a href="file:///C:/DOCUME~1/Li@/LOCALS~1/Temp/msohtmlclip1/01/clip_image002.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"></a><span style="font-family: Symbol; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">·<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Allow
your partner the freedom to work through internal conflicts.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; text-align: justify; text-indent: -18.0pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">7.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><b>Proactively address problems and
misunderstandings between you and your partner</b>. Both members of the
relationship can offer solutions until you find one that is mutually
acceptable. A true compromise is one in which both partners feel that their
thoughts and feelings are addressed while adhering to real constraints:
feasibility, time, cost, etc.<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"></span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">8.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><b>Lighten up</b>. Find time together to just have fun.
Do things that both of you really enjoy, including the unexpected. Dive into
new things together and reawaken a sense of wonder. <span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">9.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><b>Talk about subjects that the other person
loves to hear about</b>. Whenever you communicate in a relationship, it builds
bonds and trust and also you may find a mutual interest. So you should not talk
about things that the other person doesn't really like to talk about or a
subject they are uncomfortable about.<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"></span></div>
</div>
Berbagi Cerita Cintahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03350717613555963533noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5373503100349381726.post-13854847248459213732012-12-13T11:03:00.000+07:002012-12-13T11:03:56.048+07:005 CARA MENAKLUKKAN PRIA CUEK <div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Menaklukkan pria yang
cuek bukanlah hal yang mudah, karena mereka pendirian yang kuat dan perencanaan
masa depan yang kuat. Namun, hati seorang pria yang cuek tentu ada celahnya.
Nah, kali ini Pusat Ilmu Psikologi akan membahas 5 cara menaklukkan pria cuek<br />
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akan teralih perhatiannya lewat visual alias penglihatan. Mereka menyukai
pandangan di awal. Namun, jangan lewatkan momen ini ketika pria yang cuek mulai
memandang anda dengan pandangan yang berbeda. Keindahan visual yang bisa wanita
tampakkan adalah dengan menggunakan pakaian yang indah. (bukan mencolok dan
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perasaan. Ingat, pria sangat suka dengan hal-hal yang menantang dan membuat
penasaran.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Berikut Cara Mendeteksi Kebohongan
Seseorang:</span></div>
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</span></span></span></b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Jika si
dia melingkarkan pergelangan kakinya ke salah satu kaki kursi, atau tanpa sadar
menggoyang-goyangkan kakinya saat berbicara, maka kemungkinan besar dirinya
sedang berdusta. Meskipun terlihat mudah, berbohong bisa membuat seseorang
merasa stres dan tertekan, sehingga tanpa sadar melakukan berbagai gerakan
kecil untuk melepaskan ketegangan. </span></div>
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</span></span></span></b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Saat
diberikan pertanyaan sederhana, ada jeda cukup panjang sebelum ia memberikan
jawaban. Atau, si dia mengulangi kembali pertanyaan tersebut sebelum
menjawabnya. Jika demikian, Anda boleh merasa curiga, sebab ada kemungkinan
pria itu sedang berbohong </span></div>
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</span></span></span></b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Si dia
memasukkan kedua tangan ke dalam saku saat berbicara. Hmm… bisa jadi ada
sesuatu yang ia sembunyikan dari Anda. Menyembunyikan kedua telapak tangan
mengindikasikan kecemasan dan kegelisahan, sedangkan memperlihatkannya
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</span></span></span></b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Saat
menjelaskan sesuatu, terlalu banyak kata ”tapi” yang terselip di dalam
kalimatnya. Contoh: ”Aku tahu kamu tidak akan percaya, “tapi” Kemungkinan
terburuk, kalimat di belakang kata ”tapi” tersebut merupakan cerita bohong yang
ia karang sendiri. </span></div>
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</span></span></span></b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Si dia
mengangkat sebelah atau kedua bahunya saat menjawab pertanyaan Anda. Hati-hati!
Sebab hal ini sama saja seperti menyilangkan jari di belakang punggung untuk
menyembunyikan kebohongan. </span></div>
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</span></span></span></b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Dirinya
tidak bisa berhenti menggosok-gosokkan telunjuk ke bagian bawah hidung.
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dirinya merasa menyesal ketika harus membohongi Anda. </span></div>
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</span></span></span></b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Sebelum
menjawab pertanyaan, si dia mendecakkan lidah atau menjilati bibir dengan
lidahnya. </span></div>
<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-US;">Orang yang berdusta sering sengaja menatap mata
lawan bicaranya berlama-lama untuk membuktikan kejujurannya</span></div>
Berbagi Cerita Cintahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03350717613555963533noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5373503100349381726.post-54311672786686637552012-12-13T10:46:00.004+07:002012-12-13T11:28:37.803+07:00CARA PSIKOLOGIS MENGETAHUI KEBOHONGAN SESEORANG <div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Mau tahu cara orang berbohong. Nah,
berdasarkan ilmu yang saya pelajari, Cara dasar mengetahui kebohongan seseorang
ialah sebagai berikut :</span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="color: blue; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-no-proof: yes; text-decoration: none; text-underline: none;"><span style="mso-ignore: vglayout;"></span></span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"></span></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">1.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span></b><b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Ketahuilah
cara dia biasanya berbicara</span></b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Sebagai seorang teman, anda pasti mengetahui cara biasanya
sahabat atau orang yang anda kenal ketika berbicara. Ada hal-hal yang khas dari
setiap orang ketika mengujarkan sesuatu, baik ketika sedih, senang, marah, dan
lain sebagainya. Biasanya ciri ini juga diikuti dengan gesture khusus, seperti
gerak bibir, tangan, badan, mata, alis dan lain sebagainya yang satu sama lain
memiliki perbedaan. Cara-cara yang tidak sama dengan cara yang biasanya
dilakukan ketika berbicara bisa menjadi petunjuk awal.</span></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">2.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span></b><b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Perhatikan
tekanan-tekanan dalam pola bicaranya</span></b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Seseorang yang berada dalam tekanan dan desakan psikologis
juga mengalami tekanan fisik tertentu sebagai imbasnya. Misalnya detak jantung
yang meningkat dan aliran darah yang cepat. Hal ini mempengaruhi aktivitas
fisik lainnya, dalam hal ini adalah aktivitas berbicara. Orang yang berbohong
cenderung memiliki nada bicara dan tekanan yang tidak wajar. Hal ini
dikarenakan oleh tekanan serta pertimbangan pikiran yang tarik ulur dalam
menyatakan kebohongan. Pada dasarnya, menyatakan kebohongan adalah hal yang
secara alamiah akan memberikan tekanan sekaligus pada kondisi psikologi, fisik,
serta mental. Oleh karena itu, tekanan yang muncul lebih besar.<a href="http://www.blogger.com/blogger.g?blogID=5373503100349381726" name="more"></a></span></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">3.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span></b><b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Lihatlah
beberapa pertanda dan gesture (gerak-gerik) khusus yang muncul.</span></b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Berikut ini adalah beberapa pertanda dan gesture yang
seringkali dijumpai pada orang yang sedang berbohong;</span></div>
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<li class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Gerak tubuh yang minim atau
sama sekali tidak bergerak atau justru bergerak secara berlebihan. Orang
yang sedang berbohong cenderung 'membeku', tidak sering berhadapan dengan
lawan bicara,dan berusaha meminimalisasi gerak tubuhnya. Ada pula yang justru
bergrak secara berlebihan. Semua itu adalah usaha untuk menghindari
munculnya tanda-tanda bahwa dia sedang berbohong. Namun, hal ni justru
juga bisa menjadi petunjuk bahwa seseorang sedang berbohong.</span></li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Tidak ada kontak mata. Orang
sedang berbohong seringkali menghindari kontak mata. Secara naluriah, dia
akan menghidari tatapan mata lawan bicaranya. Kontak mata dalam berbicara
merupakan pendukung dan juga menyimpan informasi tambahan ketika
berbicara. Dengan melakukan kontak mata, seseorang yang sedang dibohongi
akan menangkap signal informasi yang tidak sinkron dengan apa yang
diucapkan. Itulah mengapa kemudian ada juga ilmu ilmiah membaca pikiran
orang lain melalui kontak mata.</span></li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Gesture bagian tubuh lain yang
menunjukkan rasa tertekan. Misalnya mengkukur2, memainkan kuku jari,
mengedipkan mata secara berlebihan, menelan ludah berkali-kali, dan
gerakan lain yang dilakukan berulang-ulang. Perasaan takut, gugup, tidak
nyaman, serta bayangan tentang apa yang akan terjadi jika dia diketahui
berbohong akan membuat orang mengalami tekanan yang tinggi dan melakukan
hal-hal yang sebenarnya menunjukkan kegelisahan.</span></li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Melihat ke bagian kanan atas.
Melihat ke arah ini diasosiasikan sebagai usaha untuk memperkerjakan dan
mengolah otak kanan untuk memunculkan imajinasi, yaitu usaha untuk membuat
jalinan cerita berdasarkan apa yang telah diceritakannya. Sebaliknya,
melihat ke bagian kiri disosiasikan sebagai usaha memanggil memori untuk
menyatakan kebenaran/jalinan</span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: IN; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"> </span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">cerita
yang sesungguhnya. </span></li>
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</span></span></span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Mata yang terbuka lebar dan memasang
tampang innocent (tidak bersalah). Kebiasaan di masa kecil yang masih kita bawa
sekarang adalah membuka mata selebar-lebarnya dan membuat tampang innocent,
seolah-olah hendak berkata, "Siapa? ....Aku yang bersalah?!" Hal ini
sering kita lakukan pada saat kecil dulu ketika mama memergoki ada sebungkus
roti gede yang hilang dari kulkas. !(^^) </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Symbol; font-size: 10.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">·<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Bicara yang tersendat-sendat
(paused). Tidak semua orang memiliki bakat yang besar dalam membuat cerita
serta berbicara dengan lancar pada saat berbohong. Sehingga, seringkali ditemui
pembicaraan yang dihentikan sejenak dan dalam tempo yang tidak wajar. Biasanya
terjadi ketika suatu bagian cerita bohong hendak dilontarkan, yaitu ketika dia
sedang berusaha mengarang suatu jalinan cerita. Di sinilah biasanya cerita yang
disampaikan mulai tidak konsisten dan berubah-ubah. </span></div>
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</span></span></span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Menyentuh hidung dan menutup wajah
atau mulut. Ini juga merupakan bawaan sejak kecil, yang merupakan respon
reflektif ketika seseorang ingin menutup-nutupi sesuatu. </span></div>
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</span></span></span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Nada bicara yang tinggi. Orang yang
berbohong cenderung menaikkan nada bicara. Baik karena sebagai usaha menegaskan
informasi yang disampaikan, emosi yang meningkat, maupun tekanan yang tinggi.
Hal ini akan sangat mudah diketahui apabila anda telah mengenal kebiasaan
berbicara lawan bicara. </span></div>
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</span></span></span></b><b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Mengurangi/menghilangkan
informasi yang harus disampaikan.</span></b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"></span></div>
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mengucapkan hal yang tidak sebenarnya, namun juga dengan menghilangkan
informasi yang seharusnya dikatakan pada lawan bicara. Indikasi ini sebenarnya
justru lebih mudah diketahui karena biasanya jalinan informasi/atau cerita yang
disampaikan menjadi tidak utuh dan menimbulkan banyak pertanyaan.
Pertanda-pertanda tersebut di atas masih tetap akan muncul. Setelah
menyampaikan informasi dengan gaya yang meyakinkan, dia akan melakukan
gesture-gesture tertentu, misalnya menyentuh hidung atau menutup mulut/wajah.</span></div>
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orang yang anda duga berbohong.</span></b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"></span></div>
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</span></span></span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Tentu saja cara ini juga akan
mengundang resiko besar. Apabila, ternyata lawan bicara anda tidak berbohong,
maka cara ini akan membawa dampak buruk. Oleh karena itu, pergunakan cara ini
juka anda telah mendapatkan banyak pertanda di atas dan anda yakin benar bahwa
lawan bicara anda telah berbohong. Akan tetapi, membiarkan dan tidak menanyai
orang yang sedang berbohong pun juga akan berdampak sangat buruk, terutama bagi
si pelaku. Oleh karena itu, cara ini juga merupakan solusi agar si pelaku
kebohongan mengaku dan masalah kemudian dapat dicarikan solusi untuk
diselesaikan.</span></div>
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</span></span></span></b><b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Gunakan
Intuisi.</span></b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"></span></div>
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</span></span></span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Percaya atau tidak, manusia
diciptakan memiliki intuisi. Selain itu, manusia diciptakan untuk mengatakan kebenaran.
Oleh karena itu manusia pada dasarnya susah untuk melakukan kebohongan dan
sulit untuk dibohongi. Intuisi sama sekali berbeda dengan nafsu, karena nafsu
berkaitan dengan keinginan, sehingga bersifat subjektif. Sedangkan intuisi
bersikap objektif dan tidak berdasarkan dengan keinginan. Jadi merasa dibohongi
dan berprasangka dibohongi tidaklah sama. Sebelum meyakini diri anda dibohongi,
tanyakanlah pada diri anda apakah ini karena prasangka ataukah karena intuisi
anda. Meskipun anda pada akhirnya tidak tahu apakah anda dibohongi dengan
adanya bukti, tapi setidaknya anda tahu bahwa seseorang sepertinya sedang
berbohong pada anda sehingga anda tidak akan mempercayainya begitu saja</span></div>
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hai sahabat kali ini sebuah artikel atau info untuk anda para wanita
yang punya masalah dengan rambut yang rontok. Rambut adalah mahkota bagi
pria dan wanita. Jadi tidak rela rasanya ketika rambut mulai mengalami
kerontokan. Lebih baik menggunakan produk alami untuk <b>menghentikan kerontokan</b> daripada melakukan perawatan mahal di salon, yang belum tentu menyelesaikan masalah Anda. berikut artikel selengkapnya <u><i><b>5 Cara Alami Mencegah Rambut Rontok </b></i></u></div>
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<b>Pengobatan minyak panas</b><br />
Gunakan minyak alami, seperti zaitun, kelapa, canola dan panaskan
sehingga hangat, tapi tidak terlalu panas. Pijat dengan lembut ke kulit
kepala Anda. Hangatkan dengan handuk dan biarkan selama satu jam, lalu
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<b>Jus alami</b><br />
Anda dapat menggosok kulit kepala Anda dengan jus bawang putih, jus
bawang atau jus jahe. Biarkan saja semalam dan cucilah seluruhnya di
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<b>Pijat kepala</b><br />
Memijat kulit kepala Anda selama beberapa menit setiap hari akan
membantu merangsang sirkulasi. Sirkulasi yang baik di kulit kepala
menjaga folikel rambut yang aktif. Sirkulasi dapat diperbaiki melalui
pijat dengan menggunakan beberapa tetes minyak esensial lavender atau
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<b>Antioksidan</b><br />
Terapkan teh hijau hangat (dua kantong diseduh dalam satu cangkir air)
pada kulit kepala Anda dan biarkan campuran ini selama satu jam dan
kemudian bilas. Teh hijau mengandung antioksidan yang mencegah rambut
rontok dan meningkatkan pertumbuhan rambut.</div>
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<b>Meditasi</b><br />
Percaya atau tidak, sebagian besar akar penyebab rambut rontok adalah
stres dan ketegangan. Meditasi dapat membantu dalam mengurangi itu dan
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Berbagi Cerita Cintahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03350717613555963533noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5373503100349381726.post-77399160779254862202012-12-12T14:00:00.004+07:002012-12-12T14:00:53.943+07:009 Tips Menghilangkan Pikiran Negatif<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Hal yang paling mengganggu dan memberi dampak negatif dalam kehidupan
kita sebenarnya berasal dari pandangan buruk terhadap diri anda
sendiri. Kadang kita terlalu keras menghukum dan merendahkan diri kita
sendiri atas kejadian-kejadian buruk yang menimpa diri kita atau pun
orang lain.<br />
Berikut ada beberapa Tips menghilangkan sifat negatif tersebut :<br /> <span style="color: red;"><strong><br /> 1.HIDUP DI SAAT INI.</strong></span><br />
Memikirkan masa lalu atau masa depan adalah hal yang sering membuat
kita cemas. Jarang sekali kita panik karena kejadian masa sekarang. Jika
Anda menemukan pikiran anda terkukung dalam apa yang telah terjadi atau
apa yang belum terjadi, ingatlah bahwa hanya masa kini yang dapat kita
kontrol.<br />
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<span style="color: red;"><br /> <strong>2.KATAKAN HAL POSITIF PADA DIRI SENDIRI</strong></span><br />
Katakan pada diri Anda bahwa Anda kuat, Anda mampu. Ucapkan hal
tersebut terus-menerus, kapanpun. Terutama, mulailah hari dengan
mengatakan hal positif tentang diri sendiri dan hari itu, tidak peduli
jika hari itu Anda harus mengambil keputusan sulit ataupun Anda tidak
mempercayai apa yang telah Anda katakan pada diri sendiri.<br />
<span style="color: red;"><br /> <strong>3.PERCAYA PADA KEKUATAN PIKIRAN POSITIF</strong></span><br />
Jika Anda berpikir positif, hal-hal positif akan datang dan
kesulitan-kesulitan akan terasa lebih ringan. Sebaliknya, jika Anda
berpikiran negatif, hal-hal negatif akan menimpa Anda. Hal ini adalah
hukum universal, seperti layaknya hukum gravitasi atau pertukaran
energi. Tidak akan mudah untuk mengubah pola pikir Anda, namun usahanya
sebanding dengan hasil yang bisa Anda petik.<br />
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<span style="color: red;"><br /> <strong>4.JANGAN BERDIAM DIRI.</strong></span><br />
Telusuri apa yang membuat Anda berpikiran negatif, perbaiki, dan
kembali maju. Jika hal tersebut tidak bisa diperbaiki lagi, berhenti
mengeluh dan menyesal karena hal itu hanya akan menghabiskan waktu dan
energi Anda, juga membuat Anda merasa tambah buruk. Terimalah apa yang
telah terjadi, petik hikmah/pelajaran dari hal tersebut, dan kembali
maju.<br /> <span style="color: red;"><br /> <strong>5.FOKUS PADA HAL-HAL POSITIF.</strong></span><br />
Ketika kita sedang sedang berpikiran negatif, seringkali kita lupa akan
apa yang kita miliki dan lebih berfokus pada apa yang tidak kita
miliki. Buatlah sebuah jurnal rasa syukur. Tidak masalah waktunya, tiap
hari tulislah lima enam hal positif yang terjadi pada hari tersebut. Hal
positif itu bisa berupa hal-hal besar ataupun sekadar hal-hal kecil
seperti ‘hari ini cerah’ atau ‘makan sore hari ini menakjubkan’. Selama
Anda tetap konsisten melakukan kegiatan ini, hal ini mampu mengubah
pemikiran negatif Anda menjadi suatu pemikiran positif. Dan ketika Anda
mulai merasa berpikiran negatif, baca kembali jurnal tersebut.<br />
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<span style="color: red;"><strong>6.BERGERAKLAH</strong></span><br />
Berolahraga melepaskan endorphin yang mampu membuat perasaaan Anda
menjadi lebih baik. Apakah itu sekadar berjalan mengelelingi blok
ataupun berlari sepuluh kilometer, aktifitas fisik akan membuat diri
kita merasa lebih baik. Ketika Anda merasa down, aktifitas olahraga lima
belas menit dapat membuat Anda merasa lebih baik.<br />
<strong><span style="color: red;">7.HADAPI RASA TAKUTMU</span></strong><br />
Perasaan negatif muncul dari rasa takut, makin takut Anda akan hidup,
makin banyak pikiran negatif dalam diri Anda. Jika Anda takut akan
sesuatu, lakukan sesuatu itu. Rasa takut adalah bagian dari hidup namun
kita memiliki pilihan untuk tidak membiarkan rasa takut menghentikan
kita.<br />
<strong><span style="color: red;">8.COBA HAL-HAL BARU</span></strong><br />
Mencoba hal-hal baru juga dapat meningkatkan rasa percaya diri. Dengan
mengatakan “ya” pada kehidupan Anda, membuka lebih banyak kesempatan
untuk bertumbuh. Jauhi pikiran ‘ya, tapi…’. Pengalaman baru, kecil atau
besar, membuat hidup terasa lebih menyenangkan dan berguna.<br />
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<strong><span style="color: red;">9.UBAH CARA PANDANG</span></strong><br />
Ketika sesuatu tidak berjalan dengan baik, cari cara untuk melihat hal
tersebut dari sudut pandang yang lebih positif. Dalam setiap tantangan
terdapat keuntungan, dalam setiap keuntungan terdapat tantangan.</div>
Berbagi Cerita Cintahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03350717613555963533noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5373503100349381726.post-43411192817558742212012-12-12T13:58:00.002+07:002012-12-12T13:58:58.120+07:0010 Racun Paling Mematikan<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
<span style="color: #333399;"><strong>10. Kacang Kastor</strong></span><br />
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Minyak
jarak digunakan sebagai bahan tambahan makanan dalam permen dan coklat.
Yang tidak banyak temen” ketahui adalah biji tanaman itu berisi
supertoxic racun ricin. Sedikit biji jarak yang temen” kunyah bisa
berakibat fatal. Namun, menurut American Association of Poison Control
Centre (AAPC) hanya dua korban jiwa akibat Castor Bean yang tercatat
dalam periode 1999-2004.<br />
<span style="color: #333399;"><strong>9. Belladonna</strong></span><br />
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Ekstraknya
udah digunain dari zaman Renaissance… Efeknya terjadi pada pupil mata
yang membesar. keracunan belladonna biasanya terjadi karena beberapa
orang bodoh telah menemukan bahwa daun belladonna konon memiliki sifat
halusinogen.<br />
<span style="color: #333399;"><strong>8. Fiddleback Spider Venom</strong></span><br />
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Berukuran
setengah inci, laba” Fiddleback atau Brown merupakan salah satu laba”
yang paling berbisa di dunia. Pada kasus di dua puluh lima negara bagian
(terutama di selatan dan barat-tengah) gigitan dari Fiddleback biasanya
tidak nyeri tetapi setelah delapan jam, korban akan kesakitan. Dengan
gigitan kecil akan menimbulkan gejala muntah, lepuh, Delirium dan
Nekrosis.<br />
<span style="color: #333399;"><strong>7. Pufferfish</strong></span><br />
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Bagian
dari ikan buntal yang beracun adalah tetraodontoxin yang ditemukan
dalam ovarium. Racun ini tidak hancur walaupun dimasak, meskipun para
ahli mengatakan, jika isi perut dikeluarkan sebelum dimasak, ikan
biasanya tidak berbahaya. Digunakan dalam masakan jepang “<em>Fugu</em>”,
ikan buntal hanya dapat dimasak dan khusus disiapkan oleh koki terlatih
dan berlisensi. Meskipun demikian, dari tahun 1955 sampai 1975 ada
lebih dari 1.500 orang meninggal disebabkan karena makan Fugu yang tidak
layak saji.<br />
<span style="color: #333399;"><strong>6. Heroin</strong></span><br />
<img alt="" height="275" src="http://cdn.beritaunik.net/wp-content/uploads/2012/11/white-powder-heroin1.jpg" width="495" /><br />
Sebuah
racun yang bekerja pada sistem pernapasan. Heroin menekan sistem saraf
pusat dan menciptakan perasaan euforia. Angka kematian di antara
pengguna heroin hingga 20%, sehingga daya tarik obat ini sulit untuk
dipahami. Gejala keracunan meliputi kejang, penglihatan terganggu,
tekanan darah rendah, koma dan kematian akibat kegagalan pernapasan.
dingin ..<br />
<span style="color: #333399;"><strong>5. Hemlock</strong></span><br />
<img alt="" height="275" src="http://cdn.beritaunik.net/wp-content/uploads/2012/11/hemlock_23.jpg" width="495" /><br />
Hemlock
adalah racun yang dianggap digunakan untuk membunuh Socrates, filsuf
Yunani. Dalam larutan Hemlock konsentrasi tertinggi racun Cicutoxin
ditemukan, yang diperoleh dari bagian akar tanaman. Satu gigitan pada
akar tanaman Hemlock dapat menyebabkan kematian pada orang dewasa.
Larutan Hemlock menyebabkan menyebabkan kegagalan otot, kejang-kejang
dan kematian…<br />
<span style="color: #333399;"><strong>4. Ular</strong></span><br />
<img alt="" height="275" src="http://cdn.beritaunik.net/wp-content/uploads/2012/11/viper.jpg" width="495" /><br />
Gigitan
ular yang beracun bergantung pada banyak faktor, bervariasi dari
lamanya waktu berlalu. Ular yang paling beracun adalah ular beludak
(viper), kobra dan adders. Gejala keracunan ular meliputi pembengkakan,
kegagalan organ, muntah, pendarahan dari mata dan hidung dan gusi serta
sakit jelas di lokasi gigitan ular.<br />
<span style="color: #333399;"><strong>3. Arsenik</strong></span><br />
<img alt="" height="275" src="http://cdn.beritaunik.net/wp-content/uploads/2012/11/Arsenik.jpg" width="495" /><br />
Secara
historis, arsenik adalah alat pembunuh favorit dan selalu menjadi salah
satu favorit perangkat yang digunakan dalam cerita misteri pembunuhan.
Di Inggris, arsenik tersedia sebagai racun yang bebas dibeli di apotek
untuk membantu penanganan hama tikus. Senyawa arsenik sebenarnya juga
terdapat di semua jaringan manusia normal, dan arsenik adalah salah satu
dari 20 elemen yang paling sering ditemui. Ketika digunakan sebagai
racun, gejala arsenik meliputi ketidaknyamanan lambung parah, muntah dan
diare dengan darah.<br />
<span style="color: #333399;"><strong>2. Strychnine</strong></span><br />
<img alt="" height="275" src="http://cdn.beritaunik.net/wp-content/uploads/2012/11/Strychnine.jpg" width="495" /><br />
Salah
satu dari bentuk racun yang lebih populer pada awal abad kedua puluh.
Strychnine menyerang sistem saraf pusat dan menyebabkan reaksi refleks
berlebihan. Dengan dosis yang benar korban bisa mati dalam waktu sepuluh
sampai dua puluh menit.<br />
Strychnine adalah senjata pembunuhan di
novel Agatha Christie – Misteri Affair di Styles. Strychnineini
merupakan racun yang bertindak cepat, pengobatan yang efektif sekarang
mungkin tidak ada dan itu hanya dapat dilihat sebagai senjata pembunuh
yang efisien dalam fiksi dan sangat kuno menunjukkan misteri pembunuhan.<br />
<span style="color: #333399;"><strong>1. Sianida</strong></span><br />
<img alt="" class="alignright" height="200" src="http://cdn.beritaunik.net/wp-content/uploads/2012/11/Cyanide.jpg" /><br />
Sianida
adalah senyawa kimia yang mengandung kelompok siano C≡N, dengan atom
karbon terikat-tiga ke atom nitrogen. Musah dikenali karena berbau
Almond (sering banget nich di Komik Conan! dead )<br />
Kelompok CN
dapat ditemukan dalam banyak senyawa. Beberapa adalah gas, dan lainnya
adalah padat atau cair. Beberapa seperti-garam, beberapa kovalen.
Beberapa molekular, beberapa ionik, dan banyak juga polimerik. Cyanida
yang dapat melepas ion cyanida CN− sangat beracun.<br />
Sianida
membunuh dengan mencegah sel-sel darah merah dari menyerap oksigen. Hal
ini menghasilkan proses yang dikenal sebagai “Internal Sesak Napas.”
Kapsul Sianida yang diduga digunakan oleh mata-mata Perang Dunia II
mata-mata sebagai pilihan pelarian yang mudah untuk menghindari
penyiksaan.<br />
Singkong mengandung HCN (Hidrogen Sianida), terutama
singkong yang berasa pahit. Itu makanya ada orang bisa muntah” dan mabok
habis makan singkong…<br /> Tapi tenang teman… biasanya singkong yang di pasar kadar HCN nya dikit…</div>
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<a href="http://cdn.beritaunik.net/wp-content/uploads/2012/11/bangkrut.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt="" border="0" height="193" src="http://cdn.beritaunik.net/wp-content/uploads/2012/11/bangkrut.jpg" width="320" /></a>Baru tanggal 10 bulan ini, tetapi saldo rekening
Anda sudah mendekati nol. Ke mana uang Anda lenyap? Anda mungkin sudah
mengeluarkan uang begitu banyak, tetapi tidak Anda sadari. Sebab, Anda merasa
tidak membelanjakan sesuatu yang penting. Anda bukan baru membayar premi
asuransi, membayar uang masuk sekolah anak, atau membayar biaya servis mobil.
Anda hanya window shopping atau membuka-buka situs belanja online. Wow…
ternyata inilah sumber masalahnya.<br />
Karena sudah merupakan kegiatan sehari-hari, window shopping tidak lagi Anda
anggap sebagai sumber pengeluaran. Masih ada beberapa hal lain yang kerap Anda
lakukan, dan ternyata membuat gaji cepat menyusut.</div>
<div style="margin-left: 21.3pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-align: justify; text-indent: -18.0pt;">
<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #244061; mso-themecolor: accent1; mso-themeshade: 128;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">1.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span></b><strong><span style="color: #333399;">“Window
shopping”</span></strong></div>
<div style="margin-left: 21.3pt; text-align: justify;">
Sering kali kita window
shopping dengan alasan iseng karena tidak punya kegiatan. Memang menyenangkan
sih melihat barang-barang bagus di sekitar kita. Namun, dari sekadar iseng,
akhirnya Anda jadi membeli sesuatu yang tidak Anda rencanakan. Anda bahkan
tidak perlu keluar rumah untuk window shopping. Hanya dengan melihat-lihat katalog,
browsing internet, membaca majalah, atau menonton iklannya di televisi pun,
Anda bisa tergoda untuk membeli.</div>
<div style="margin-left: 21.3pt; text-align: justify;">
Sebenarnya Anda pasti sudah
tahu bahwa window shopping adalah kebiasaan buruk yang untuk menghentikannya
butuh kedisiplinan tinggi. Paling aman adalah dengan tidak mengunjungi mal bila
Anda memang tidak memerlukan sesuatu untuk dibeli atau ditemui. Selain itu, tak
perlu lagi meminta katalog atau menerima tawaran e-mail update mengenai
barang-barang kesukaan Anda. Tanyakan pada diri Anda: apakah saya memerlukannya
dan dapatkah saya membelinya secara tunai? Bila tidak, cepatlah berlalu.<span lang="IN" style="mso-ansi-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div style="margin-left: 21.3pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-align: justify; text-indent: -18.0pt;">
<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #244061; mso-themecolor: accent1; mso-themeshade: 128;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">2.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span></b><strong><span style="color: #333399;">Membawa
banyak uang tunai</span></strong></div>
<div style="margin-left: 21.3pt; text-align: justify;">
Mengandalkan kartu kredit
untuk berbelanja memang tidak baik, tetapi selalu membawa banyak uang tunai
juga sama buruknya. Uang tunai memberikan Anda perasaan memiliki uang berlebih,
dan karenanya perlu dibelanjakan. Bawalah uang tunai secukupnya saja, dan
tinggalkan sisanya di rumah. Menghindari kartu kredit perlu tetap dilakukan,
tetapi yang penting adalah membuat budget mengenai kapan harus membayar sesuatu
secara tunai. Manajemen amplop juga cukup efektif untuk mengelola uang tunai.</div>
<div style="margin-left: 21.3pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-align: justify; text-indent: -18.0pt;">
<strong><span style="color: #244061; mso-bidi-font-weight: normal; mso-themecolor: accent1; mso-themeshade: 128;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">3.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span></strong><strong><span style="color: #333399;">Membagi
data pribadi Anda pada vendor</span></strong><strong><span style="font-weight: normal;"></span></strong></div>
<div style="margin-left: 21.3pt; text-align: justify;">
Ketika Anda melakukan online
shopping, Anda tentu akan diminta memberikan alamat rumah dan informasi kartu
kredit. Situs-situs ini juga memberikan tombol-tombol sekali klik untuk memesan
sesuatu sehingga Anda bisa membeli dalam sekejap. Sangat mudah, tetapi juga
sangat berbahaya. Trik belanja yang serbamudah ini tidak hanya membuat Anda
kehabisan uang jika Anda tergolong impulsive shopper, tetapi juga menghilangkan
rasa telah menggunakan uang. Sebab, Anda tidak menggunakan uang tunai atau
menandatangani struuk kartu kredit di sini. Semua tinggal klik saja.</div>
<div style="margin-left: 21.3pt; text-align: justify;">
Jangan biarkan vendor
menyimpan informasi kartu kredit Anda. Hindari signing up untuk e-mail atau
katalog jika hal itu hanya mendorong Anda untuk berbelanja.</div>
<div style="margin-left: 21.3pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-align: justify; text-indent: -18.0pt;">
<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #244061; mso-themecolor: accent1; mso-themeshade: 128;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">4.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span></b><strong><span style="color: #333399;">Mengumpulkan
voucer belanja</span></strong></div>
<div style="margin-left: 21.3pt; text-align: justify;">
Mendapatkan diskon Rp 100.000
untuk produk perawatan badan atau sportsgear memang lumayan, tetapi pastikan
dulu bahwa Anda memang membutuhkan barang-barang tersebut. Hanya karena
menerima voucer belanja, tidak berarti Anda harus membelanjakannya kan? Lagi
pula, kebanyakan nilainya juga tidak begitu terasa. Tak perlu merasa sayang
bila voucer akhirnya mubazir karena tidak digunakan. Lebih baik Anda buat
daftar barang-barang yang diperlukan, setelah itu baru melihat apakah ada
voucer yang bisa dimanfaatkan.</div>
<div style="margin-left: 21.3pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-align: justify; text-indent: -18.0pt;">
<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #244061; mso-themecolor: accent1; mso-themeshade: 128;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">5.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span></b><strong><span style="color: #333399;">“Shopping”
dengan emosi</span></strong></div>
<div style="margin-left: 21.3pt; text-align: justify;">
Anda mungkin ingin refreshing
karena merasa stres di kantor atau bosan di rumah. Atau, Anda ingin memanjakan
diri Anda karena berhasil menurunkan berat badan. Lalu, Anda pun shopping. Anda
berhasil mendapatkan baju baru, gadget baru, novel-novel terbaru, lagi sale
pula.</div>
<div style="margin-left: 21.3pt; text-align: justify;">
Namun, membiarkan mood Anda
mendikte keputusan belanja adalah cara tercepat untuk menjadi bangkrut.
Tenangkan diri Anda sebelum shopping. Kembali kepada pertanyaan mendasar:
apakah Anda memerlukannya dan apakah Anda mampu membelinya? Anda bisa kok
memberi penghargaan pada diri Anda tanpa mengeluarkan uang, misalnya berendam
di bak mandi, atau saling memijat dengan suami, pacar atau selingkuhan (hehe) .</div>
<div style="margin-left: 21.3pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-align: justify; text-indent: -18.0pt;">
<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #244061; mso-themecolor: accent1; mso-themeshade: 128;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">6.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span></b><strong><span style="color: #333399;">Tidak
membuat perencanaan</span></strong></div>
<div style="margin-left: 21.3pt; text-align: justify;">
Anda kelelahan setelah pulang
dari kantor, dan di rumah tidak ada makanan. Paling praktis memang membeli
makanan. Berdasarkan data dari Bureau of Labor Statistics, di Amerika
diperkirakan rata-rata keluarga yang terdiri atas empat orang menghabiskan
lebih dari 4.000 dollar untuk makan di luar. Bukankah ini kebiasaan yang sangat
mahal?</div>
<div style="margin-left: 21.3pt; text-align: justify;">
Bila Anda berbelanja mingguan,
buatlah daftar menu untuk seminggu sehingga Anda selalu mempunyai bahan makanan
untuk diolah. Jika aktivitas Anda begitu padat, cobalah untuk memasak pada hari
Minggu, lalu menyimpannya di lemari es untuk disantap esok harinya.
Bagaimanapun juga, memasak sendiri jauh lebih hemat dan sehat daripada membeli
makanan di luar.</div>
<div style="margin-left: 21.3pt; text-align: justify;">
Dan, butuh kedisiplinan tinggi
untuk mengubah kebiasaan semacam ini. Dengan perencanaan, disiplin, dan
menghindari situasi yang menggoda Anda untuk berbelanja, kebiasaan buruk ini
pasti akan teratasi.</div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">
<br /></div>
</div>
Berbagi Cerita Cintahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03350717613555963533noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5373503100349381726.post-22319803520521812322012-12-10T15:13:00.003+07:002012-12-10T15:13:35.914+07:00How to Make Your Own Luck<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span lang="IN" style="mso-ansi-language: IN; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-hansi-font-family: Symbol;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">1.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><b>Be assertive and proactive</b>. If you don't
walk your path, no one else can or will do it for you — why should they? You
can and must innovate, create and do your stuff your way. "Chance" is
involved in random-luck, but improving your luck is never about relying upon
pure random-chance.<span style="mso-hansi-font-family: Symbol;"> </span><span lang="IN" style="mso-ansi-language: IN; mso-hansi-font-family: Symbol;"></span></div>
<br />
<ul style="text-align: left;">
<li><span style="font-family: Symbol; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;"><span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"></span></span></span><b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Venture</span></b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">: this luck requires positive,
proactive effort, and nurturing your ideas. No venture, no gain! No input, no
processing, no output! No "get-up-and-go" and <i>not moving ideas up
and outward</i> to make or boost events to develop and happen, then <b>no</b>
luck.</span></li>
</ul>
<br />
<ul style="text-align: left;">
<li><span style="font-family: Symbol; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;"><span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"></span></span></span><b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Avoid
useless, purposeless risks</span></b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">.
You can't control chance events, but you can take action to improve your
situation. Believe that things happen because of how you approach life.</span></li>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">2.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Believe in
a goal</span></b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">. Write it down, and make this your
luck "blueprint." Use the proverbial back of a napkin or scrap of
paper (even with the usual coffee stains) — whatever is available right now.
When preparing your blueprint, consider the following:</span></div>
<ul type="disc">
<li class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; mso-list: l5 level1 lfo3; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Title your blueprint 'Make Luck
for ______' (one of your areas of interest). If it is messy, that's fine
as it'll take shape in time. These ideas can seem like ordinary things, or
things that will be time-consuming and difficult but that apply to your
future "luck" needs in that area.</span></li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; mso-list: l5 level1 lfo3; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">List ideas for your chosen
goal, and write down every big thing you can think of on that topic. Don't
spend too much time on your plan right now — you can take the time to
polish it later.</span></li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; mso-list: l5 level1 lfo3; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Copy your blueprint over to
something more substantial later if you're using scrap paper.</span></li>
</ul>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; text-align: justify;">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoListParagraph" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 12.0pt; margin-left: 21.3pt; margin-right: 0cm; margin-top: 0cm; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo2; text-align: justify; text-indent: -21.3pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">3.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Put
deadlines on your goals</span></b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">.
Deadlines make daily progress more likely. Aim to make progress in little goals
or short-term goals, be they hourly, daily or weekly ones. Make your own action
plan, and follow through on it. Polish your plans as you go and try to remain
open to new opportunities.</span></div>
<ul type="disc">
<li class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo4; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Think of prerequisites. This
means the required order of your goals, such as doing 101A before 102B, if
it matters. This may require placing a number of your goals in a logical
sequence.</span></li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo4; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Write descriptions of the
categories of your goals. Categories can work better than writing
thousands of short term goals that don't seem to be linked. Consider
adding smaller steps within each goal so you can see the linear process
more clearly.</span></li>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">4.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Expect
great lucky ideas to occur to you, but do not worry, if you're not inspired
right now</span></b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">. Work through your doubts, and muse
and meditate about goal-related matters. </span></div>
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin-left: 35.45pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l2 level2 lfo2; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; text-align: justify; text-indent: -14.15pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">-<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Be ready for new ideas. As soon as
inspiration hits, find a way to write it down. If you don't record it, later
you'll probably wonder, "What was that great idea...?" If you do not
focus on a reasonably dynamic idea to develop and to actualize, then that kills
this luck (but if you have and believe in your ideas, you can then make
positive changes at many levels).</span></div>
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin-left: 35.45pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; text-align: justify;">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 21.3pt; margin-right: 0cm; margin-top: 0cm; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo2; text-align: justify; text-indent: -18.0pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">5.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Raise your
expectations</span></b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">. No matter where you are (or where
you'd rather be), you can move beyond simply existing. Pump up your goals any
way that you can. </span></div>
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin-left: 35.45pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l2 level2 lfo2; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; text-align: justify; text-indent: -18.0pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;"><b> </b>-<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Realize that lucky people focus on
'getting it done, and go beyond simply making do.</span></div>
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin-left: 35.45pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l2 level2 lfo2; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; text-align: justify; text-indent: -18.0pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;"> -<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Don't wait without good reason
— recognize that perpetual procrastination until something better just
comes along amounts to making excuses.</span></div>
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin-left: 35.45pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; text-align: justify;">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpLast" style="line-height: normal; margin-left: 21.3pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo2; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; text-align: justify; text-indent: -18.0pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">6.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><b>Work smarter, not harder</b>. Use connections
with other people to help accomplish your goals. Go beyond making an effort and
shift into innovating and trying new ways to get things done.<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"></span></div>
<ul type="disc">
<li class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; mso-list: l3 level1 lfo5; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Partner up. Both <span style="color: blue;">Bill Gates</span>
and <span style="color: blue;">Steve Jobs</span> had a technical expert as a
startup-partner. Partnering with someone who is able in areas where you
are not relieves you of your own limitations and makes more room for your
strengths to shine.</span></li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; mso-list: l3 level1 lfo5; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Don't ever presume you need to
create your luck alone — others can be great support as you seek your
luck. (Just be sure to reciprocate in kind — this isn't a one-way sense of
support.)</span></li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; mso-list: l3 level1 lfo5; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Be ready when opportunity
arrives.This is the real secret behind making the most of "luck"
— people spend a lot of time preparing themselves rather than simply
sitting about hoping, and it can take a lot of time initially.</span></li>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">7.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Seek new
experiences</span></b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">. When you know what will improve
your life or the lives of others around you, you create your own direction and
strive forward. With this sense of direction in place, you can now seek and
find what you're looking for, pursuing your blueprint goals, able to focus on
what is in your plan, path or way.</span></div>
<ul type="disc">
<li class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; mso-list: l4 level1 lfo6; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Build up your experience. For
example, gain the experience or expertise yourself through study and
observation. Or, speed things up by finding a mentor who can help guide
you along the path you've chosen — someone with real-world experience.</span></li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; mso-list: l4 level1 lfo6; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Observe how others work without
imposing on them. Creative people need some latitude and time to get ideas
together and to get going. Be a good listener, rely on using good humor,
and make time for relaxation together. Arguing with people who have as
strong a vision or set of goals as you is inevitable, so make room for
agreement too and never be unreasonable in insisting on your own way. Flex
but be sure to push for your worthy innovations and improvements.</span></li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; mso-list: l4 level1 lfo6; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Be a self-made
"genius". For example, to play several musical instruments,
realize that you must practice every day, for years, and never stop, for
thousands of hours. The same may be true for academic talents: devote
yourself fully and recognize that true improvement takes time.</span></li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; mso-list: l4 level1 lfo6; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Learn to do public speaking;
even if you don't stand before a crowd, it can help you to become
persuasive and get in shape in all areas that matter.</span></li>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">8.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Be
positive</span></b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">. Believe in yourself. Don't say,
"I never had talent". People who think like that usually are wishful,
but didn't really try enough things, or keep at them for long enough.</span></div>
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<li class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; mso-list: l6 level1 lfo7; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Happiness and joy are choices.
Choose joy. Happiness can come by choosing to be inspired and investing
and using your time wisely. Have fun by doing your work. Put on more
genuine smiles, and avoid the fake or pasted-on grin.</span></li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; mso-list: l6 level1 lfo7; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Learn to love
"hateful" things: Love your work — practice, study, keep records
of your business/or notes on your learning.</span></li>
</ul>
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</span></span></span><b>Persist</b>. Remember: some popular singers
make it with a poor voice, some celebrities make it without being the most
beautiful, the most talented or the most connected. It's because they are
persistent and they believe in what they're doing, through and through.
Ultimately, the key to seizing luck is to finish what you start or to work it
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Berbagi Cerita Cintahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03350717613555963533noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5373503100349381726.post-49699440325929285212012-12-10T14:55:00.002+07:002012-12-10T14:55:39.194+07:00How to Be Good<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span style="font-family: "Bell MT","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 150%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Philosophers have been debating what is
good and what is not for centuries, and many people find that it's more
complicated than just being kind. While every person's journey is different,
being good has a lot to do with discovering yourself and your role in the
world. Here's how to be a good person on your own terms.</span></div>
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</span></span></span><span style="font-family: "Bell MT","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 150%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><b>Define what "good"
means to you</b>. Ultimately, you have to decide on your own code of ethics,
and what matters is that you follow through with what you believe makes you a good
person. At times, this may conflict with what others believe is good, and they
might even accuse you of being wrong or evil. Consider their views-either they
know something you don't, in which case you may learn something from them and
update your morality, or perhaps their experience is limited, meaning that you
should take their views with a grain of salt.<b> </b></span></div>
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Don't try to be a good person because your parents told you to, because you
want recognition or respect, or for any kind of reward except your own
satisfaction in doing what you believe is good. Never act superior to anyone
else or brag about your "goodness" or "righteousness". Your
dedication to a particular creed, ideology, or set of guidelines does not make
you better than anyone else. Do what you believe makes you a good person on
your own terms, and remember that it's an individual journey-everyone's path is
unique. <i>Do good by stealth, and blush to find it fame.</i><sup>[1]</sup></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Bell MT","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 150%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Bell MT"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Bell MT";"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">3.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><sup><span style="font-family: "Bell MT","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 150%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"></span></sup><b><span style="font-family: "Bell MT","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 150%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Be
proactive</span></b><span style="font-family: "Bell MT","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 150%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">. It's tempting to infer that as long as you avoid doing the
things you know are bad (stealing, badmouthing, lying, intentionally saying
hurtful things, etc.), then that means you're a good person, but there's more
to it than that. By avoiding bad behavior, you've made a big step towards
becoming a good person, but you've only just begun. In order to be good, you
actually have to <i>do good things</i> rather than just <i>avoid doing bad
things</i>.</span></div>
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you ever heard the saying that "the road to hell is paved with good
intentions"? It's not enough to <i>want</i> to do good, and to <i>try</i>
to do good-you must also think about whether your actions actually had good
results. Not every attempt to do good will end with good results, so when
things don't work out, be willing to reconsider your actions and change them
accordingly. <i>Never let your sense of duty, loyalty, or obligation get in the
way of doing what's right.</i><sup>[2]</sup> For example, many parents feel
that it's good to help their children in every way possible, but there are
times when children need to learn lessons on their own and face challenges in
order to achieve or to avoid mistakes in the future. A child who has been
arrested on suspicion of drunk driving needs to bear the responsibility of his
or her actions. If the parent bails the child out, then helps the child avoid
consequences, s/he will only learn that the parent will be there to help even
if s/he does wrong. The intention is good (wanting to help the child succeed),
but the action might not be (removing all obstacles from their path).</span></div>
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What might seem like a good idea in your situation might not have a very good
impact on a broader scale (in the example above, the child won't have
experienced punishment for the DUI and might go and violate the law again, this
time possibly hurting or killing someone else). People often do right things
for the wrong reasons, and wrong things for the right reasons. If you're
playing a game with your team, for instance, it might seem good to try and
score as many goals as you can to bring your team to victory. But look at the
big picture. How will your teammates feel if you score all the points instead
of helping set them up to score at times, never allowing them to get a shot in?
How will that kind of victory affect the team spirit? Would you still feel good
if your team won, but your teammates felt that it was an individual effort and
they weren't involved? Consider the long-term impact of your decisions and what
they might mean for others. </span></div>
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In the struggle to be good, it's easy to swing from one extreme to another.
However, any form of extremism can lead to closed-mindedness, a quality that
can be found behind what most people can agree are bad deeds. In Buddhism,
there's a term for avoiding extremism: "the Middle Way". Whenever you
find yourself leaning towards an extreme, try to find the Middle Way before you
act. This isn't going to be easy, but if being good was easy, wouldn't every
good-hearted person be good? Here are some dilemmas you may encounter:</span></div>
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good to be humble
and kind, but
is it not good to be so humble and kind that you let people walk all over you to
the extent that it damages your physical and emotional health, or lessens
your ability to care for, spend time with, and provide for your family?</span></li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: "Bell MT","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 150%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">It's
good to be responsible (pay your bills on time, plan
for retirement, save up for your kids to go to college), but is it good to
be this way to the point that you hoard away hundreds of thousands of
dollars in assets and wealth for your own family's financial security
without ever giving someone else (who wasn't fortunate enough to be born
into your family) a helping hand?</span></li>
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good to be
positive, but is it good to be so positive that you ignore risks and
brush mistakes under the rug, never learning from bad decisions because
you're always "positive" that it'll work out the next time
around?</span></li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: "Bell MT","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 150%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">It's
good to be
honest, but is it good to be so honest that you hurt people's feelings
unnecessarily, violate someone's privacy or prevent someone from finding
answers that they might need to find for themselves?</span></li>
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</span></span></span><b><span style="font-family: "Bell MT","serif";">Give
people the benefit of the doubt</span></b><span style="font-family: "Bell MT","serif";">.
To the extent that it doesn't jeopardize your safety (like getting in the car
with a group of people you just met), assume each person you meet is a good
person, and act likewise. If you see someone do something that you think bad,
consider what they are dealing with in the context of their own life-don't jump
to conclusions. Try to discover what motivated their bad act, and if
appropriate, show them how it was hurtful by using nonviolent communication. Many
times, helping someone else become a good person in a gentle, open-minded and
unimposing way can help you learn and become a better person yourself.</span><span style="font-family: "Bell MT","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 150%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Bell MT","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 150%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Bell MT"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Bell MT";"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">8.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><b><span style="font-family: "Bell MT","serif";">Learn</span></b><span style="font-family: "Bell MT","serif";">. Constantly improve your understanding
of what goodness means. Observe subtle or complex situations and consider how
you would act in such a position. You can also learn from your own mistakes,
from others, and from history.</span><span style="font-family: "Bell MT","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 150%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"></span></div>
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a guide</span></b><span style="font-family: "Bell MT","serif";">. Seek out
someone who you can talk to about these important things. Relationships are
very important in life, and such a relationship can be invaluable in your
journey of becoming a better person and doing good things.</span><span style="font-family: "Bell MT","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 150%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Bell MT","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 150%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Bell MT"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Bell MT";"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">10.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><b><span style="font-family: "Bell MT","serif";">Be a guide to others</span></b><span style="font-family: "Bell MT","serif";">. Sometimes, you can learn best by
teaching. Make yourself available to help other people and
foster a genuine desire to see them thrive. Believe in the power of your
actions to influence others. When other people see you doing good deeds, they
will be reminded to take more positive action themselves. Nurturing someone
else and striving to be an example can help you see your own acts more clearly.</span><span style="font-family: "Bell MT","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 150%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Bell MT","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 150%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Bell MT"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Bell MT";"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">11.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><b><span style="font-family: "Bell MT","serif";">Delight in goodness</span></b><span style="font-family: "Bell MT","serif";">. Instead of focusing on the bad things
happening around you, find reasons to dwell on the good. Notice small
kindnesses that you find yourself or other people doing, and constantly remind
yourself of the things for which you're grateful. Feeling like you are
surrounded by good acts and nice people will inspire you to do more good
yourself.</span><span style="font-family: "Bell MT","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 150%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"></span></div>
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Berbagi Cerita Cintahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03350717613555963533noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5373503100349381726.post-48756061002544821992012-12-07T14:41:00.004+07:002012-12-07T14:41:56.415+07:00Reset Printer Canon MP258 Langkah Kedua<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
<strong>LANGKAH KEDUA</strong><br />
Dari <a href="http://newgeneration-venus.blogspot.com/2012/12/cara-reset-printer-canon-mp258-terbaru.html" target="_blank">Langkah Pertama </a>dijelaskan cara membuat printer dalam keadaan <b>"Service Mode" </b><br />
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Setelah printer telah dalam keadaan <strong>service mode</strong> maka langkah selanjutnya adalah melakukan reset printer dengan menggunakan software <strong>service_tool 1050.exe. </strong>Berikut langkah-langkahnya:<br />
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<li>Download terlebih dahulu software resetter canon MP198, MP258, MP276, MP496, MP558, MP568, dan MP648 <a href="http://www.ziddu.com/download/10241255/ServiceTool_1050.zip.html" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"><strong>Service_tool 1050.exe</strong></a></li>
<li>Setelah di download extrack dan jalan software restter tersebut:</li>
<li>Klik tombol “<strong>MAIN</strong>“, namun sebelumnya pastikan ada kertas di tempat kertas printer, karena printer akan mencetak setelah proses selesai.</li>
<li>Lalu Klik tombol “<strong>PLATERN</strong>“, printer akan mencetak lagi.</li>
<li>Matikan printer.</li>
<li>Printer Anda siap untuk digunakan kembali.</li>
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<br /><strong>Untuk Printer Canon MP258 yang Error Code E-08 , 5B00 atau P07</strong><br />
Lakukan Langkah Pertama seperti di atas, namun untuk langkah kedua lakukan dengan instruksi seperti gambar berikut :<br />
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Semoga Tips melakukan reset printer canon dengan menggunakan Resetter Canon MP198, MP258, MP276, MP496, MP558, MP568, dan MP648 ini bermanfaat<strong>.</strong></div>
Berbagi Cerita Cintahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03350717613555963533noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5373503100349381726.post-84727777603140944452012-12-07T14:31:00.002+07:002012-12-07T14:46:39.411+07:00Cara Reset Printer Canon MP258 Terbaru <div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Ada yang lagi bermasalah dengan Printer Canon MP258 ? </span></span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span id="fullpost" style="display: inline;">Ketika printer Canon MP258 dinyalakan akan menunjukkan error P 07 di LCD panelnya.</span></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Itu tndanya butuh Resetter Printer Canon MP258, Hari ini <a href="http://newgeneration-venus.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">saya</a> akan membagikannya kepada kalian :D <a href="http://indosoftgame.blogspot.com/search/label/Software">,</a>
Fungsi resetter printer ialah untuk ngeresset catridge pada printer.
Karena printer mempunyai jumlah maksimal dalam mencetak, sehingga
boardnya akan membaca kode itu sebagai waste ink full sehingga perlu
diresset dengan hardwere resset dan software resset. Silahkan simak Cara
Resetter MP 258 Canon, dibawah ini.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Cara Resetter MP 258 Canon :</span><br />
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<li><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Printer dalam keadaan mati dan kabel listrik terpasang.</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Tekan Tombol STOP/RESET dan tahan, kemudian tekan tombol POWER dan tahan.</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Tombol
POWER masih ditekan, lepas tombol STOP/RESET, kemudian tekan tombol
STOP/RESET 2 x dalam keadaan tombol power masih ditekan.</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Lepas kedua tombol secara bersamaan.</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Printer akan berproses beberapa saat (agak lama), kemudian LCD Panel akan menunjukkan angka NOL (0)</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Komputer akan mendeteksi DEVICE BARU, Abaikan saja …..</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Keadaan ini menunjukkan printer MP258 dalam keadaan SERVICE MODE dan siap direset.</span></li>
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Dilanjutkan dengan <a href="http://newgeneration-venus.blogspot.com/2012/12/reset-printer-canon-mp258-langkah-kedua.html" target="_blank">Langkah Kedua </a></div>
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